Giuseppe Nespeca è architetto e sacerdote. Cultore della Sacra scrittura è autore della raccolta "Due Fuochi due Vie - Religione e Fede, Vangeli e Tao"; coautore del libro "Dialogo e Solstizio".
Some days I was in a bar. There were some young people talking about their daily problems, when at a certain point the issue of envy came up.
The discussion on this topic was also taken up by the people who were there and someone joking or not (who knows) expressed: but how do you remove it?
I was reminded of old magical and superstitious practices from when I was a child. Or of all those times I have heard people say in the face of a failure or unfavourable situation: 'I must go and have envy removed'. And not only from simple people, but also from people with a certain degree of culture. As already argued in previous articles, even the man of science has his irrational side.
In the Treccani dictionary under envy we read: 'An unpleasant feeling for a good or quality of others that one would like for oneself, often accompanied by aversion and resentment for the one who possesses it instead'.
It is a feeling we all have and which we refuse to acknowledge because it is often something we are ashamed of. We often believe that this feeling has occult powers and therefore believe that pseudo-magical practices can free us. Nothing could be more illusory.
Melanie Klein wrote the book 'Envy and Gratitude' where she addresses this issue.
This author investigated in depth the first relationship the child has with the mother's breast and then with the mother when it manages to perceive her as a total object. A primary relationship that can also be difficult due to maternal causes: non-acceptance of the baby, difficulties in childbirth, or reluctance to breastfeed.
But there are also causes that can arise from the baby, and among these is envy, which prevents a good relationship with the breast.
The baby may feel a great deal of anger towards the breast, whether it is perceived as good, i.e. that it satisfies him, or as bad - because it does not satisfy his needs and generates envy because it possesses something he does not have.
And so the infant tries to harm him as he can, by putting his naughty bits in (spitting, urinating, biting, etc.).
In a person a strong presence of envy can damage his way of life, and his relations with others; not because of external causes, but because he cannot understand the good object.
He feels that he has ruined it and made it bad.
He cannot feel its good feelings, and this increases his envy and hatred.
In contrast, the child who is more able to feel love and gratitude for the gift he has received, experiences the good object more.
Consequently, gaining confidence in his own goodness, he will overcome envy and hatred more easily.
The person suffering from envy can hardly enjoy the joys of life, because the relationship with the mother and then with any other object of love is damaged.
Positive feelings encourage the child to keep the milk received as good.
Experiencing gratitude is the basis of pleasure, and later he will be able to establish satisfying relationships, because destructive desires are diminished: his anxieties will be less.
Envy does not make us live well, for the simple reason that it goes against life - and the outside world becomes our enemy.
Or it makes us live a 'breast' that is too idealised or too bad.
A person with a good capacity to love can love the 'object' while seeing its limitations.
One positive thing that envy can operate in us is the possibility of improving ourselves.
Often, for those who seek help from a professional, among the various issues that the person brings to analysis, this problem must be addressed.
If the analyst is well aware of these destructive parts, he will be able to lead the person in front of him to recognise the negative parts, and to mitigate them with love and positive feelings.
The well-adjusted person will bear his or her own feelings of guilt better, and will not need to see them on others. .
Very often it is difficult to bear ourselves.
Francesco Giovannozzi Psychologist - Psychotherapist.
No forced surrender
(Mk 12:28b-34)
That of the ‘Great commandment’ was the most familiar catechism rule, even to infants.
Jesus is questioned only to retort: and why do you not keep the one commandment that even God fulfils - the Sabbath rest?
The only disposition in which the Father recognizes himself is Love, not some particular precept - because only profound Quality obliges.
The spiritual proposal of the Master makes the narrative of God's people and the practice of the Prophets its own: all heart, feet, hands - and intelligence.
Complete Love for God envelops the creature in every decision [heart], every moment and aspect of its concrete 'life', all its resources [strength].
Mt 22:37 does not explicitly mention this last aspect, perhaps to emphasize that the Father doesn’t absorb energies in any way, but transmits them.
And Jesus adds to the nuances of authentic understanding with God enumerated in the First Testament an unexpected side to those who think of love as a feeling only emotional.
The Lord suggests study, discernment and understanding of our perceptions (v.30) - the mental and deep intelligence aspect that complements Dt 6.
At first glance, it appears to be a secondary facet or even a frill for the qualitative leap from a common religious sense to the wisely and personally configured existence of Faith.
The exact opposite is true: we are children of a Father who does not supplant us, nor absorb our forces or potential, depersonalising us; not even from the mental point of view.
Practicality alone makes us fragile, not very aware; and when we are not convinced, we will not be reliable either, always at the mercy of changing situations and the conformist, fashionable, other people’s opinion.
Jesus doesn’t speak of love for God in terms of intimacy and feeling, but of a totally involving affinity, made less oscillating precisely by the development of our sapiential measure on issues.
Here is a decisive appointment, of the Love in the round.
It would be unnatural to recognise a Lord of Heaven who does not come to meet us and instead towers over us with an objective of his own, which is extrinsic to us and makes us marginal.
Loving «How [and Because] yourself»: it’s a new Genesis in the spirit of Giving.
The paradox suggested by Jesus is that we love for the care to meet - and because we love ourselves - by expanding the I into the You.
God’s «great command» affects real life and concerns not only the quality of relationship with the world and neighbour, but the reflexive global with oneself.
We should not be afraid of other doctrines and disciplines, neglecting the challenges even intellectual ones that call into question beliefs, works, one’s worldview, language, style, and thought itself.
All added values.
Needless to complain, if the ecclesial realities that do not update or deepen, and remain in the inherited commonplaces [or vogues] slowly decay, then disappear.
Therefore to the ancient notes of true love, the Son of God adds the ‘quality of mind’: we are not gullible, clueless, one-sided.
Our outstretched hands are the result of free and conscious choice. No forced surrender.
«Faith that does not become culture is a faith that is not fully accepted, not entirely thought out, not faithfully lived» [John Paul II].
To internalize and live the message:
What’s Great for you? Do you document and update yourself in order to better correspond to God’s Call?
[31st Sunday in O.T. B (Mk 12,28b-34) November 3, 2024]
The great "commandment": Love
(Mk 12:28-34)
"What is the first commandment of all? Jesus answered [...] The first is: 'Listen to Israel. The Lord our God is one Lord, and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your life and with all your mind and with all your much" (vv.28-30; Deut 6:4-5).
Jesus turns what was the most banal of catechism questions into a crucial question: what is the 'great' commandment?
Despite the different theological schools, the answer was well known to all: the Sabbath rest, the only prescription observed (even) by God.
The question posed to the Master by the expert in the Law was not so innocent, but "to test him" (Mt 22:35; Lk 10:25) - that is, to answer him: how then do you not fulfil the Sabbath precept?
Christ simplifies the tangle of disputes, about widening or narrowing theoretical cases, and gets to the point.
Always allergic to bickering over doctrines, He makes a proposal of life as a unitive moment of the demands of the Covenant.
All norms have an essence, otherwise they remain a dispersive jumble. They find their spontaneous foundation and natural meaning in the gift of self - but motivated.
But what is the solid point and context of such an invitation? A vague feeling, one emotion among many, a passing motion? Philanthropy? Or an experience?
We are thirsty for affection and grant friendship in an alternating current, so much so that love becomes a source of misunderstandings, rooted in the need to complete each other.
This is why the second commandment appears as an explanation of the first, not a reduction of it [Mt 22:39; Mk 12:31; Lk 10:27].
In the ancient world it made no sense to speak of love towards God, the ineffable Mystery.
It was the Most High who favoured someone by giving him material fortune, and he acknowledged to him a duty of worship, and sacrifices.
Ditto for the unfortunate, at least to avoid retaliation (and keep him good).
With Jesus, one speaks openly of gratuitousness - not simple gratitude - as the unifying core, both of the person and of salvation history.
Gone is the idea of the exchange of favours.
The Father does not need anything; he does not enjoy seeing us submissive and feeling recognised [the pattern of pagan religiosity] as a sovereign would towards his subjects.
The relationship with the Eternal One remains concrete, but honour towards the Most High is manifested by making His plan of good and growth towards man our own, and recognising ourselves in it.
God's plan unfolds ... with a living demand. But there is a Departure, a Centre and an Arrival. In reality, a new Genesis.
In any case, only God's initiative brings out the best in us: more talent, more desire, more interests, more unexpressed capacities, more unseen - instead of soul-denying torments.
It is the difference between religiosity that weakens the personality, and Faith.
Through Faith a special creative relationship is triggered: that of the one who accepts the Calling by Name, as well as the proposals of the Source of being itself - wave upon wave.
They anticipate our initiatives and infallibly guide us to the perfect blossoming of our own and others' Seeds.
Especially in Mt (22:38-39) and Mk (12:29-31) it is clear that love for one's neighbour derives from the experience and awareness of being loved first and unconditionally by God - looked upon, accepted, valued, promoted, gladdened, completed.
One loves not by effort [force is a dirigiste lever: it produces episodes that make life worse] but on the basis of how much we feel loved - and with immediacy, repeatedly, unconditionally.
One loves on the argument of the 'forfeit' already experienced in one's favour by Providence, which gives meaning and value to human acts.
Not out of infatuation with external, induced, however other people's expectations.
Even in the spiritual field, not a few behaviours believed to be able to solve problems, often chronicle them.
In this way, they rely on an idea of permanence - not on the dynamic of vocational gratuitousness, on the unimaginable Gift, to be received.
So the point is to adjust according to resources that come, or the distortion of models, typical of the moralist mentality.
In fact, the scheme of omnipotence in the good, paradoxically, folds the ego and its forces, and distorts its gaze.
But beyond all nuances, we are glad that the first and second commandments are about Love: what we most desire to do and receive. It is an urgency of life.
Yet we must be wise, so that the pattern of paradigms or the urges of natural affection and precipitation do not overwhelm and drag away - overturning - every good intention.
Love does not tolerate the excess of expectations, because it springs from an experience of Perfection that arrives; offered, unexpected, unpredictable. Not already set up according to concatenated and normal intentions.
If authentic, in time we will experience blossoming; not in the expectation of a return, but first and foremost in a Gift outside of time. Because it has already satiated and convinced us - with contemplative amazement - and made us rejoice.
Thus the vocational and foundational Eros will continue to mould us, with its perennially explorative virtue capable of activating new Births.
Personal energy - without the usual baggage of torment, reservations, outwardness... and (again) wrath.
Great Commandment: only Deep Quality obliges
The only disposition in which the Father recognises Himself is Love, all-round and all-round; not some particular precept.
For Jesus there are no rankings in the things of God and man - in fact He showed a marked tendency to summarise the many dispositions - because only the profound Quality obliges.
The spiritual proposition of the Master appropriated the narrative of God's people and the practice of the Prophets: all heart, feet, hands - and intelligence.
Complete Love for God must envelop the creature in every decision [heart].
Likewise, in every moment and aspect of its concrete 'life', and involve all its resources [strength: cf. Mk 12:30; Lk 10:27].
Deut 6:5 (Hebrew text) reads in fact: "with all your 'much'", meaning a concrete participation in both cultic life and material fraternity - providing and helping with one's possessions.
Matthew does not explicitly mention the latter, perhaps to emphasise that the Father does not absorb energies in any way, but transmits them.
But Jesus adds to the nuances of authentic understanding with God enumerated in the First Testament an unexpected side to those who think of love as a delicate feeling only.
The Lord suggests the study, discernment and understanding of our perceptions [Mt 22:37; Mk 12:30; Lk 10:27] accompanied by the mental aspect and deep intelligence (excluded in Deut 6).
At first glance, this seems a secondary facet or even a frill for the qualitative leap from a common religious sense to the existence of wisely and personally configured Faith.
The exact opposite is true: we are children of a Father who does not supplant us, nor does he absorb our potential or energy, depersonalising us.
It is a capital implication of our dignity and promotion - even human - and a specific discriminator in the discernment of Faith in Christ, as opposed to all devotional solutions in search of the Absolute (whatever).
Practicality alone makes us fragile, not very aware; and when we are not convinced, we will not be reliable either, always at the mercy of changing situations and the conformist, fashionable opinion of others.
We not infrequently flee the all-round confrontation that would enrich everyone - precisely because of incompetence.
But we are not one-sided gullible. Being attentive and up-to-date, having the ability to think even critically is a required expansion in the development of one's human, moral, cultural and spiritual vocation.
Trivialities, identifications, impersonal scopiazzature and half-hearted assembly repetitions get in the way of the tide of life, this divine cascade of perennial energy that pulses and does not die down.
On the contrary, it comes with stirring appeals: it calls to open us up to new relationship attractions and other interests, even intellectual; even denominational.
Jesus does not speak of love for God in terms of intimism and sentiment, but of a totally involving affinity, made less uncertain precisely by the development of our sapiential measure, regarding matters.
Devotion swallows up everything. Faith, on the other hand, does not allow itself to be plagiarised by local or external civilisation: it presupposes an ability to competently enter into personal evaluations or those inherent in the community and overall debate - historical and up-to-date.
The testimony of our Hope does not disdain to allow itself to be enriched by dialogue with those who have greater psychological or biblical expertise, specialised pastoral and social, as well as archaeological, bioethical, economic, scientific and so on.
A commitment that shows true interest in the Sacred [of course, all aspects to be evaluated not as school options].
But it must be admitted that one of the most organic expressions of great Catholic theology is what was once called the 'doctrine' of the seven Gifts of the Holy Spirit.
In the existence of Love, the primacy (also relational) of the Gift of the Spirit was recognised, which completed the possibilities of 'natural' expression of the cardinal and theological virtues, bringing them to fullness.
As many as four of the seven Gifts were related to a character of profound knowledge: Wisdom, Intellect, Counsel and Science.
In short: there is still a decisive appointment here for all-round Love.To indulge in a few jokes along the lines of belief is everyone's domain [individualist or circle], but the ability to enter into it is only of those who have been willing to sift through and experience the issues - because they are more interested in understanding the Face of God and His Design on humanity than in reiterating false narrative certainties.
It would be unnatural to recognise a Master of Heaven who does not come to meet us; as if he towers over us with 'his' objective (extrinsic to us) and thus makes everyone marginal.
[In sects - even those with a good-natured appearance - it is forbidden to delve deeper, to understand: the position is already there, the candidate must "only" adapt].
"As (and because) thou art thyself" [sense of the Greek text: Mt 22:39; Mk 12:31; Lk 10:27]: it is a new Birth of life, new Genesis in the spirit of Gift.
The paradox suggested by Jesus surpasses the ancient norm of Lev 19:18.
We love not only the children of our people, "by the fact that" we care to meet and want to enrich ourselves together, expanding the I into the Thou.
God's "Great Command" invests real life and concerns not only the quality of our relationship with the world and our neighbour, but the reflexive global with self.
One should not be afraid of other doctrines and disciplines, neglecting analytical challenges beyond the 'organic' ones - the long-term ones.
They all challenge beliefs, works, one's worldview; language, style, and thought itself.
We still have a great need to broaden our minds and become as vast as a panorama. And reharmonise the opposites we drag in.
Hidden Sides and Pearls to which we have not yet given breath, or visibility - and perhaps never considered Allies.
The troubled fate of the prophets remains unique, but it is not the certainties (ancient, or sophisticated, fashionable, à la page) that are the added value of the adventure of Faith in Love - but rather the risk of putting oneself in the balance and the all-round reworking.
It is then useless to complain, if the ecclesial realities that do not update, and remain in the inherited commonplaces, slowly decay, then disappear.
In spite of their resounding heritage and fabulous events.
In this way, the "doctor of the law" may already be close [Mk 12:34; Lk 10:28] but he still has to keep an eye on Jesus, to understand in Him the more dilated sense of the total gift, in the specifically personalising, which is not naive.
The Lord restores the sense of the norms to their profound and original function: to become the viaticum of every encounter that raises events, people of all backgrounds, and creation.
In conclusion, experience and ritual have their fulcrum in the reciprocity of love.
Life in all its facets becomes Liturgy more meaningful than the accredited gesture of worship; its truly broken Bread becomes a convincing call to Communion and Mission.
Even if it does not make the headlines, the authentic thermometer of our journey will not be the volume or the pile of important things we do, but a pulsing of regenerated heart and mind.
That is why to the ancient notes of true Love the Son of God adds the quality of thought: we are not gullible, uninformed, one-sided.
Our outstretched hands are the fruit of free and conscious choice. No forced surrender.
"A faith that does not become culture is a faith that is not fully accepted, not entirely thought out, not faithfully lived" [John Paul II].
To internalise and live the message:
What is Great for you? Titles? Having, power, appearing?
What in your experience of Love is the Starting Point, the Centre and the Arrival?
Do you document and update yourself to better correspond to God's Call?
Deep Relationship
Dear brothers and sisters!
This Sunday's Gospel (Mk 12:28-34) re-proposes to us Jesus' teaching on the greatest commandment: the commandment of love, which is twofold: to love God and to love one's neighbour. The Saints, whom we have recently celebrated all together in one solemn feast, are precisely those who, trusting in God's grace, seek to live according to this fundamental law. Indeed, the commandment of love can be fully put into practice by those who live in a deep relationship with God, just as a child becomes capable of love from a good relationship with its mother and father. St John of Avila, whom I have recently proclaimed a Doctor of the Church, writes at the beginning of his Treatise on the Love of God: 'The cause,' he says, 'that most impels our heart to love God is to consider deeply the love He has had for us... This, more than benefits, impels the heart to love; for he who gives another a benefit, gives him something he possesses; but he who loves, gives himself with all he has, without anything else left to give' (No. 1). Before being a command - love is not a command - it is a gift, a reality that God makes us know and experience, so that, like a seed, it can also germinate within us and develop in our lives.
If God's love has taken deep root in a person, that person is able to love even those who do not deserve it, as God does towards us. A father and mother do not love their children only when they deserve it: they love them always, even if they naturally let them know when they are wrong. From God we learn to always and only want good and never evil. We learn to look at the other not only with our eyes, but with God's gaze, which is the gaze of Jesus Christ. A gaze that starts from the heart and does not stop at the surface, goes beyond appearances and manages to grasp the other person's deepest expectations: expectations of being listened to, of gratuitous attention; in a word: of love. But the reverse also occurs: that by opening myself to the other as he is, by going out to meet him, by making myself available to him, I also open myself up to knowing God, to feeling that he is there and that he is good. Love of God and love of neighbour are inseparable and stand in a reciprocal relationship. Jesus invented neither one nor the other, but revealed that they are, after all, one and the same commandment, and he did so not only with his words, but above all with his testimony: the very Person of Jesus and his entire mystery embody the unity of love of God and neighbour, like the two arms of the Cross, vertical and horizontal. In the Eucharist He gives us this twofold love, giving us Himself, so that, nourished by this Bread, we may love one another as He has loved us.
Dear friends, through the intercession of the Virgin Mary, we pray that every Christian may know how to show his faith in the one true God with a limpid witness of love for his neighbour.
(Pope Benedict, Angelus 4 November 2012)
Dear Brothers and Sisters,
This Sunday’s Gospel (Mk 12:28-34) offers us Jesus’ teaching on the greatest commandment, the commandment of love, which is two-fold: love of God and love of neighbour. The Saints, who we have recently celebrated together in a single solemn Feast are precisely those who, trusting in God’s grace, tried to live according to this fundamental law. In fact, those who live a profound relationship with God, just as a child becomes capable of loving, starting from a good relationship with his mother and father, may put the commandment of love fully into practice. St John of Avila, who I recently proclaimed a Doctor of the Church, writes at the beginning of his Treatise on the Love of God: “the cause”, he says, “that mostly pushes our hearts to love of God is considering deeply the love that He had for us.... This, beyond any benefit, pushes the heart to love; because he who gives something of benefit to another, gives him something he possesses; but he who loves, gives himself with everything he has, until he has nothing left to give” (n. 1). Before being a command — love is not a command — it is a gift, a reality that God allows us to know and experience, so that, like a seed, it can also germinate within us and develop throughout our life.
If the love of God has planted deep roots in a person, then he is able to love even those who do not deserve it, as God does us. Fathers and mothers do not love their children only when they deserve love; they always love them, though of course, they make them understand when they are wrong. We learn from God to seek only what is good and never what is evil. We learn to look at each other not only with our eyes, but with the eyes of God, which is the gaze of Jesus Christ. A gaze that begins in the heart and does not stop at the surface, that goes beyond appearances and manages to capture the deepest aspirations of the other: waiting to be heard, for caring attention, in a word: love. But the opposite is also true: that by opening myself to another, just as he or she is, by reaching out, by making myself available, I am also opening myself to know God, to feel that he is there and is good. Love of God and love of neighbour are inseparable and are mutually related. Jesus did not invent one or the other but revealed that they are essentially a single commandment and did so not only through the Word, but especially with his testimony: the person of Jesus and his whole Mystery embody the unity of love of God and neighbour, like the two arms of the Cross, vertical and horizontal. In the Eucharist he gives us this two-fold love, giving himself, because, nourished by this Bread, we love one another as he has loved us.
Dear friends, through the intercession of the Virgin Mary, we pray that every Christian may know how to show his/her faith in the one true God with a clear witness to love of neighbour.
[Pope Benedict, Angelus 4 November 2012]
Since the beginning of my pontificate, I have considered the dialogue of the Church with the cultures of our time to be a vital field, in which the destiny of the world is at stake at this end of the 20th century. In fact, there is a fundamental dimension, capable of consolidating or shaking to the foundations the systems that structure the whole of humanity, and of freeing human existence, both individual and collective, from the threats that weigh upon it. This fundamental dimension is man, in his entirety. Now man lives a fully human life thanks to culture. 'Yes, man's future depends on culture', I declared in my speech on 2 June 1980 at UNESCO, addressing interlocutors so diverse in their origin and convictions, adding: 'We find ourselves on the ground of culture, a fundamental reality that unites us... We find ourselves around man and in a certain sense, in man'.
Picking up the rich inheritance of the Ecumenical Council, of the Synod of Bishops and of my venerable predecessor Paul VI, on 1 and 2 June 1980 I proclaimed in Paris, first at the Catholic Institute, and then before the exceptional assembly of UNESCO, the organic and constitutive bond that exists between Christianity and culture, with man, therefore, in his very humanity. This bond of the Gospel with man, I said in my speech before that areopagus of men and women of culture and science from all over the world, 'is, in effect, the creator of culture in its very foundation'. And, if culture is what makes man, as man, become more man, then man's very destiny is at stake in it. Hence the importance for the Church, which is responsible for it, of attentive and far-sighted pastoral action with regard to culture, in particular what is called living culture, that is, the set of principles and values that make up the ethos of a people: "The synthesis between culture and faith is not only a requirement of culture, but also of faith... A faith that does not become culture is a faith that is not fully accepted, not entirely thought out, not faithfully lived" ("Discorso ai partecipanti al Congresso Nazionale del Movimento ecclesiale di impegno culturale": "Insegnamenti", V, 1 [1982] 131), as I said on 16 January 1982.
On the other hand, there is an urgent need for our contemporaries, and Catholics in particular, to seriously question the conditions that underlie the development of peoples. It is increasingly evident that cultural progress is intimately linked to the construction of a fairer and more fraternal world. As I said in Hiroshima, on 25 February 1981, to the representatives of science and culture gathered at the United Nations University: 'The construction of a more just humanity or of a more united international community is not a dream or a vain ideal. It is a moral imperative, a sacred duty, which man's intellectual and spiritual genius can meet by a new mobilisation of everyone's talents and energies and by harnessing all man's technical and cultural resources" ("Teachings", IV 1 [1981] 545).
Consequently, by virtue of my apostolic mission, I feel the responsibility incumbent upon me, in the heart of the collegiality of the universal Church, and in contact and agreement with the local Churches, to intensify the Holy See's relations with all the achievements of culture, ensuring also an original relationship in a fruitful international collaboration, within the family of nations, that is, of the great "communities of men united by different bonds, but above all, essentially by culture" ("Address to UNESCO", 2 June 1980: "Teachings" III [1980] 1636ff).
For this reason, I decided to found and establish a Council for Culture, capable of giving the whole Church a common impulse in the encounter, continually renewed, of the saving message of the Gospel with the plurality of cultures, in the diversity of peoples, to whom it must bring its fruits of grace.
[Pope John Paul II, Letter instituting the Pontifical Council for Culture, 20 May 1982]
At the heart of this Sunday’s Gospel passage (cf. Mk 12:28b-34), there is the commandment of love: love of God and love of neighbour. A scribe asks Jesus: “Which commandment is the first of all?” (v. 28). He responds by quoting the profession of faith with which every Israelite opens and closes his day, and begins with the words “Hear O Israel: The Lord our God is one Lord” (Deut 6:4). In this manner Israel safeguards its faith in the fundamental reality of its whole creed: only one Lord exists and that Lord is ‘ours’ in the sense that he is bound to us by an indissoluble pact; he loved us, loves us, and will love us for ever. It is from this source, this love of God, that the twofold commandment comes to us: “you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength.... You shall love your neighbour as yourself” (Mk 12:30-31).
In choosing these two Words addressed by God to his people and by putting them together, Jesus taught once and for all that love for God and love for neighbour are inseparable; moreover, they sustain one another. Even if set in a sequence, they are two sides of a single coin: experienced together they are a believer’s strength! To love God is to live of him and for him, for what he is and for what he does. Our God is unmitigated giving; he is unlimited forgiveness; he is a relationship that promotes and fosters. Therefore, to love God means to invest our energies each day to be his assistants in the unmitigated service of our neighbour, in trying to forgive without limitations, and in cultivating relationships of communion and fraternity.
Mark the Evangelist does not bother to specify who the neighbour is, because a neighbour is a person whom I meet on the journey, in my days. It is not a matter of pre-selecting my neighbour: this is not Christian. I think my neighbour is the one I have chosen ahead of time: no, this is not Christian, it is pagan; but it is about having eyes to see and a heart to want what is good for him or her. If we practice seeing with Jesus’ gaze, we will always be listening and be close to those in need. Of course our neighbour’s needs require effective responses, but even beforehand they require sharing. With one look we can say that the hungry need not just a bowl of soup, but also a smile, to be listened to and also a prayer, perhaps said together. Today’s Gospel passage invites us all to be projected not only toward the needs of our poorest brothers and sisters, but above all to be attentive to their need for fraternal closeness, for a meaning to life, and for tenderness. This challenges our Christian communities: it means avoiding the risk of being communities that have many initiatives but few relationships; the risk of being community ‘service stations’ but with little company, in the full and Christian sense of this term.
God, who is love, created us to love and so that we can love others while remaining united with him. It would be misleading to claim to love our neighbour without loving God; and it would also be deceptive to claim to love God without loving our neighbour. The two dimensions of love, for God and for neighbour, in their unity characterize the disciple of Christ. May the Virgin Mary help us to welcome and bear witness in everyday life to this luminous lesson.
[Pope Francis, Angelus 4 November 2018]
Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed
On the occasion of the recent passing of my parents, to the torment of the illness and the loss of both (soon) was added the annoyance of an environment that continued to give me "condolences".
As for good manners, of course, but who has assimilated the language of the Faith does not mourn anyone, nor does he speak of "dead" but of Deceased ones. They live.
Not as survivors of the blows that life holds, but as ‘dilated’, authentic, adorned ones - and finally fully realized.
Women and men… ‘blossomed’ in everything, experiencing a new kind of being in their own essence; a different existence.
As in an atmosphere of pure love, where like Jesus we no longer live for ourselves, but one with the other and one for the other.
With no pressing chronometers, nor abandonments.
The term comes from the Latin verb «defungor» [infinitive «defungi»] which indicates the partial term of a story, not a total fulfillment.
Not a definitive border that would open on the nullifying and cavernous abyss of lost shadows or larvae without momentum, devoid of identity and future - after the transit in time.
The condolences [from the Latin «cum-dolēre»] turned willingly within a purely pagan mentality or linked to an archetypal sense of religiosity.
That kind of conviction led relatives and friends to grieve - a hopeless cry - which Jesus openly rebukes [Jn 11:33 Greek text; some translations are uncertain].
To believe that with death everything ends means to imagine that existence is a progressive decay into the void.
This conviction makes any path of growth, even spiritual, consider absurd. And it postulates the senselessness of getting involved, of committing oneself to the ideal of the lasting Good - for a Beautiful that continues beyond our earthly life and in favor of our neighbour.
“Condolences” therefore indicate in themselves that everything is over.
In the epigraph on the portal of a cemetery of a town not too far from me we read an inscription in large letters: «here over the centuries lay affections vanity hopes».
The cold of the end of all beautiful things, and the "ice" of the neoclassical revisited in early twentieth century style... perfectly matched on whitewashed travertine coating.
Instead, Hope attracts us and refreshes the spirit, overcomes outrage, gives meaning to our going.
Already the believers of the first centuries had supplanted the pagan idea of the appointment of our sister death as «dies infaustus», replacing it in its opposite: «dies Natalis».
Day of true Birth, within the same Life now complete, healed.
Life, which precisely proceeds - beyond the temporal or locality parameters.
Without the fatigue of existing that we experience. Immersed in the vastness of being.
Life without the struggles against oneself, and which continues in the satisfying, blessing Embrace of a Father who does not depersonalize but expands the character existence, the qualities of his sons.
In this blossoming full of light and warmth we are as if we were refounded on the prototype-Project of the authentic Son.
Alliance Trait that we should and perhaps could have been.
Overwhelmed ones with blissful Happiness, for our shadow-part is now included; devoid of judgments and comments.
[Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed, November 2, 2024]
(Mt 25:31-46)
The famous Judgment passage presents the Risen One coming (v.31) as the "Son of Man", that is, the authentic and complete development of the divine plan for humanity: his kind of "verdict" follows.
God embraces the condition of limitation of his creatures, so the behaviour that fulfils our life is not about our religious attitude per se, but about our attitude towards our fellow human beings.
This is the evangelical call of the recent encyclical [October 2020] on fraternity and social friendship.
Aware of the situation, the Magisterium is now becoming the sting of every obvious and unimportant group spirituality, of every folklore mysticism, of every hollow, intimist, still sitting on the fence.... empty, intimist, still sitting in bedside armour.
In all ancient beliefs, the soul of the deceased was weighed on a notarial basis and judged according to its positive or negative balance.
According to the rabbis, divine mercy intervened in favour, only when good and bad deeds were balanced out.
Jesus does not speak of a tribunal that proclaims unchangeable negative judgements on the whole person, but of the traits of complete existence that - being in themselves indestructible because they are humanising - are saved and assumed, introduced into definitive existence.
"Life of the Eternal" (v.46 Greek text) alludes to a non-biological but relational kind of life and completeness of being, which we can already experience.
These are episodes in which our divine DNA, the Gold that inhabits us, has surfaced: when we have been able to respond to the needs not of God, but of life itself and of our brothers and sisters.
These are the moments when we have been deep listeners to nature, to the hope and vocation of all - sensitive to the needs of others.
Opportunities that have allowed us to bring the human condition closer to the heavenly one.
Comparing the "works" declared as "paradigm" with those in the lists of classical Judaism (Is 58:6-7) and other religions - even ancient Egypt [Book of the Dead, c.125] - we note the difference in v.36: "I was in prison and you came to me" (cf. vv.39.43).
The difference is remarkable precisely under the criterion of divine justice: it overrides forensic considerations, because it creates justice where there is none.
The Father lays down life in every case, because he is not good as is believed in all devout persuasions, but exclusively good.
The "righteous" - then - did not even realise that they had done who knows what: they spontaneously corresponded to their innate and transparent nature as sons (v.39).
They have had sympathy for the "flesh" in the reality in which it is found - and where it is found - valuing it as family. They have loved with and like Jesus, in Him.
They have not loved for Jesus - as if the other's condition could be bracketed, and underneath considered a nuisance on which to build a fiction, albeit a sympathetic one.
The other observant people, on the other hand, all caught up in formalisms of ritual, doctrine and discipline that God does not care about, are surprised that the Father is not all there where they had imagined Him to be.
That is, respectable but empty and stagnant like them, caught up in the sentences of ordinary justice: "When did we see you [...] in prison and did not serve you?" (v.44).
The vocation to meet leads us spontaneously to transgress divisions: legalistic, of retribution, or prejudices, and gender of worship.
This is the eminent, weighty Salvation - lurking in the direct and genuine. Not so much in organised intentions; nor does it have any substance on the basis of opinion.
We realise ourselves in responding to the instinctive call that arises from our own essential altruistic imprint: even minimal, ill-considered, or eccentric, shaky and unfulfilling - not extraordinary.
Without excessively external conditions, it is recognised to be disseminated in the soul and in the beneficial, divinising fullness of the 'Son of Man'.
Jesus' ultimate teaching: Distinguished, global and all-human judgement.
Not qualunquist or contraband response, to concept and account.
Jesus' identification with the little ones remains singular: "what you have done even to one of the least of these brothers of mine, you have done to me" (v.40).
Otherwise: "not even to me have you done" (v.45).
His Person has a central meaning, with no distinction between friends and counter-legislators, between pious doers and non-doers.
Adherence to Christ is not judged on the basis of works far removed from the humanising Core.
Beautiful things that can also be accomplished without a spirit of benevolence [out of duty and culture, or even lustre and calculation] - but on love.
God is not obliged to reward merit.
Good works can also be displayed or performed against the Father: as if to bind his hands.
A misinterpretation typical of religions, which provide rewards for the pious.A misinterpretation alien to the experience of Faith, whose only security lies in the risk of exploration, growth, the quality of relationships - indeed, humanising relationships.
Life and death are quite distinct ['right and left': proverbially, fortune and misfortune] according to the characteristics of authentic piety towards God Himself... because His honour is reflected in the promotion of woman and man, caught in their concrete situation.
The only non-negotiable principle is service to the good of each person.
Works of love are an expression of true Communion with Christ - in this way freed from cerebral tares and mannerisms: from any kind of limitation or judgement that conditions their value.
In short, there is no need to do targeted and extraordinary, or mechanical things, but to let God act - respecting and valuing the brother for what he is.
Even outside the visible realm of the kingdom of the apostles (or a doctrine-discipline) there is authentic 'Christianity': civilisation of children.
In short, no predestination to the condemnation of the distant or errant and imperfect, except for a lack of fraternity that retrieves the impossible - even 'counter-law'.
Authentic Kingship of Christ and His own.
In Palestine, in the evening, shepherds used to separate the sheep from the goats that needed shelter from the cold.
In order to emphasise its importance, the question raised by the evangelist adopts the colourful forms of rabbinic preaching.
The question is not who is saved and who is not.
If anything, the question is: on which occasions are we willingly out in the open even at 'night', and humanise - and on which do we behave in a more belligerent, closed manner, but without becoming... lambs?
In Christ, the victory over selfishness loses its meaning of annihilation of the possibilities of individual growth - which is not achieved by stubbornness.
His power is anything but stagnant and divisive. It does not conceal the capabilities we do not see, or what we do not know.
Opposite situations are the glorious moments of the same victory. This is evident in the continuation of the passage, which proclaims the other extreme of love: "the Son of Man is delivered up to be crucified" (Mt 26:2).
Thus, the purpose of Mt is not to describe the end of the world, but to provide guidance on how to live wisely [today] in order to form a family and not to be fascinated by the immediate glitter of false jewels - even well-prepared ones.
The Recall of the Gospels insists on contrasting this with a frivolous spirituality: the only appropriate distinction.
The man of God does not satisfy the lusts of even ecclesiastical careers, and every whim.
The Tao Tê Ching (iii) suggests, addressing even the wise ruler: "Do not exalt the most capable, do not let the people contend; do not covet the goods that are obtained with difficulty, do not let the people become thieves; do not obtain what can be coveted, do not let the hearts of the people be troubled.
Commented Master Wang Pi: "When the most capable are exalted, it brings prestige to their name; the glory goes beyond their office, and they are always binge-watching, comparing their abilities. When goods are prized beyond their usefulness, the greedy rush upon them, haggling; they drill walls, break into coffers, and become thieves at the risk of their lives'.
And Master Ho-shang Kung adds, about "those whom the world judges to be excellent": "With their specious speech they adapt to circumstances, distancing themselves from the Tao; they stick to form, rejecting substance.
The Lord's Appeal emphasises the qualitative aspects, of Person in relation: He illustrates how life is worth betting on.
This is so that all may experience fullness of being - which is not the result of opportunism.
Nor is it the result of belonging: all discrimination between 'called' in the visible Church and those far from it is suspended.
The strong images of the Gospel passage serve to make us reflect, to open our eyes, to shift the horizon, to impress on our conscience what is worth putting into play: everything, about the choices to be made.
Genuine love that moves heaven and earth is that which succeeds in making the wicked right - in the free Gift, free of conditions and forms of self-love. Even exempt from sacred evaluations.
Intuates the Tao (xxxiii): "Who does these things? Heaven and Earth [...] Those who give themselves to the Tao identify with the Tao.
The genuine arises and flourishes from the disinterested and spontaneous way, without any effort or contrived purpose.
Here man is a different Subject, far richer - firm in himself, but expanding into the divine and human You, even destitute.
"In today's Gospel page, Jesus identifies himself not only with the shepherd-king, but also with the lost sheep. We could speak of a "double identity": the king-shepherd, Jesus, also identifies himself with the sheep, that is, with the smallest and neediest brothers and sisters. And so he indicates the criterion of the judgement: it will be taken on the basis of the concrete love given or denied to these people [...] Therefore, the Lord, at the end of the world, will review his flock, and he will do so not only on the side of the shepherd, but also on the side of the sheep, with whom he has identified himself. And he will ask: "Have you been a little shepherd like me?" [...] And we only go home with this sentence: "I was there. Thank you!" or: "You forgot about me"".
(Pope Francis)
That which gives value to every moment
(Jn 6:35-40)
Jesus' words imply the clear dissimilarity between ordinary food and Bread that does not perish.
The distinction is taken from Deut 8:3 - with reference to the Manna-Word of the Lord (wisdom food that liberates and imparts life).
Wis 16:20-21.26 recognises the manna of the desert to be food prepared by angels, but what really keeps one alive is the Word.
Those heavenly fruits, though delicious and able to satisfy every taste, do not satiate - they do not nourish completely.
Cultural paradigms that identified manna with wisdom also enter into the symbolic language used by Christ.
He thus self-evangelises in his discourse on the Bread of Life.
Coming to the Lord is not within our reach. Doing the works of the law, perhaps yes - with effort - but doing the Work of God is not unnatural.
It does not depend on a thought, a choice, or a disciplinary practice.
In short, the Subject of the walk in the Spirit is God Himself, working in us.
Human action is at every juncture a response to his own self-revelation and action [cosmic and in one's soul; convergent or not].
The Coming from Above is critical: it provokes the relationship of Faith. Personal relationship, which is not mere assent and fulfilment, but reading and vision.
Forward action and discovery of resurrection - in particular, of shadow sides that become resources.
So Faith-love expands life, because it has its input from divine generosity, from Grace.
It thus becomes decision, occupation, responsibility; inescapable and diriment duty - despite this, personal.
Christ is Food that must be eaten, minced, by means of Faith.
The evocation becomes Eucharistic, realisation of the "Life of the Eternal" (v.40 Greek text) even in a manner different from the manner sought; here and now.
By dying, without any delay Jesus delivers the Spirit (Jn 19:30) that suddenly arouses the sacramental experience (Jn 19:34).
The Life of the Eternal is not a pious hope in the afterlife: the term designates God's own intimate life, which unfolds and bursts into history [sometimes unceremoniously] in a multifaceted manner.
Energy, Food, New Lucidity: it reaches women and men who see and believe in the Son.
It is a Faith-Vision that reads meaning, and enables direct appropriation: it overcomes insurmountable obstacles.
A Faith-Gesture that gushes forth; a Faith-Action that becomes a ferment of expansion, because it has already aroused acumen, global attention, and intimate consensus.
It sharpens and expands the transformative resources of souls and events themselves.
It bestows overall generative abilities - outward and inward, indestructible; which lose nothing [no longer doomed to death: v.39].
The obtuse gaze around the first fraternities already sealed the Mystery.
But contrary to the First Testament (Ex 33:22-23), by Faith one now sees God and lives, no longer afraid (Ex 3:6).
He who "sees" the Son "has" the same Life as the Eternal (v.40).
The Vision of Faith, the Vision of the Son, the Vision of the glorious outcome of the one who was rejected by the religious authorities and considered accursed by God, makes one become One with Him.
It is actual Resurrection, even in the swift and crushing experience of dispersive existence.
The Image considered impossible and that could not be held, gives way to a process of interpretation, action, rearrangement, which attracts future.
It gives way to the completeness of God's humanising and different world.
The shift of gaze breaks the web of appearances, of banal, inherited or à la page convictions.
In short: perceiving Him becomes the engine of salvation, the foundation that surpasses the pre-human.
Perceiving it becomes Encounter; in its own and perennial dimension. Principle of blissful eternity.
At the end of the first century, the churches feel the risk of collapse.
The progressive split from pagan religion in general, and Judaizing devotion in particular, entailed a wide-ranging debate with customary and internal, even liturgical implications.
The battle with Pharisaical purism sparked all kinds of controversies, including whether or not foreigners should be segregated.
Differences of opinion even arose over the canon of Scripture itself (for Christians, already in Hellenistic Greek).
According to believers in Jesus, the Source of full and indestructible life ["Life of the Eternal": v.40 Greek text] is not material bread.
Already on this earth the all-embracing Food does not lie in any trivial certainty.
One must rather "see the Son" (v.40).
It means to grasp in the Master a story that does not end in failure, because despite the rejection of the leaders, the outcome of his-our story is the divine condition. Indestructible glory.
And "Believing in Him" (v.40) does not depend on cultural extraction or social position, but on an unrepeatable elaboration.To see and have Faith is to trust in the luminous [seemingly absurd] Vision that is communicated in the most intimate fibres and from the very first 'Birth'. Certain of the full attunement and realisation in that super-eminent Figure.
We do not adhere to enthusiasm or initiatives [the 'Church of events', as Pope Francis says].
The life of the Eternal in us begins in the eye of the soul; echoing the primordial Dream.
It enters into the grasping of the Father's trajectory. He wants for his least ones a fullness of imprint and character, without conformity.
Only thanks to the Gift in which we recognise ourselves from our roots and in essence, do we perceive joyful consonances that identify desires, words, actions and the kind of path of the Risen One Himself, pulsating within us.
The Person of Christ is the only Food without homologation.
Sustained by the Bread-Person we can avoid both the search for false security and the craving for support. E.g., acquaintances, financial backers, conspicuous institutions that guarantee privileges; and so on.
Preferring Broken Bread.
The food of the earth preserves physical life, but it cannot revive us through unique personal Genesis, nor open a way through death.
This gives value to each moment.
To internalise and live the message:
What does it mean for you to see the Son and believe in Him?
Do not project onto God the image of the servant-master relationship
The multiplication of the loaves and fishes is a sign of the great gift that the Father has given to humanity and that is Jesus himself!
He, the true "bread of life" (v. 35), wants to satiate not only bodies but also souls, giving the spiritual food that can satisfy a deep hunger. That is why he invites the crowd to procure not the food that does not last, but the food that remains for eternal life (cf. v. 27). This is food that Jesus gives us every day: his Word, his Body, his Blood. The crowd listens to the Lord's invitation, but does not understand its meaning - as happens so often to us too - and asks him: "What must we do to do the works of God?" (v. 28). Jesus' listeners think that He is asking them to observe the precepts in order to obtain other miracles such as that of the multiplication of the loaves. It is a common temptation, this, to reduce religion only to the practice of laws, projecting onto our relationship with God the image of the relationship between servants and their master: servants must perform the tasks the master has assigned, in order to have his benevolence. This we all know. So the crowd wants to know from Jesus what actions they must do to please God. But Jesus gives an unexpected answer: "This is the work of God: that you believe in him whom he has sent" (v. 29). These words are also addressed to us today: God's work is not so much in 'doing' things, but in 'believing' in Him whom He has sent. This means that faith in Jesus enables us to do the works of God. If we allow ourselves to be involved in this relationship of love and trust with Jesus, we will be able to do good works that smell of the Gospel, for the good and the needs of our brothers and sisters.
The Lord invites us not to forget that if it is necessary to worry about bread, it is even more important to cultivate a relationship with Him, to strengthen our faith in Him who is the "bread of life", who came to satisfy our hunger for truth, our hunger for justice, our hunger for love.
(Pope Francis, Angelus 5 August 2018)
Are we disposed to let ourselves be ceaselessly purified by the Lord, letting Him expel from us and the Church all that is contrary to Him? (Pope Benedict)
Siamo disposti a lasciarci sempre di nuovo purificare dal Signore, permettendoGli di cacciare da noi e dalla Chiesa tutto ciò che Gli è contrario? (Papa Benedetto)
Jesus makes memory and remembers the whole history of the people, of his people. And he recalls the rejection of his people to the love of the Father (Pope Francis)
Gesù fa memoria e ricorda tutta la storia del popolo, del suo popolo. E ricorda il rifiuto del suo popolo all’amore del Padre (Papa Francesco)
Today, as yesterday, the Church needs you and turns to you. The Church tells you with our voice: don’t let such a fruitful alliance break! Do not refuse to put your talents at the service of divine truth! Do not close your spirit to the breath of the Holy Spirit! (Pope Paul VI)
Oggi come ieri la Chiesa ha bisogno di voi e si rivolge a voi. Essa vi dice con la nostra voce: non lasciate che si rompa un’alleanza tanto feconda! Non rifiutate di mettere il vostro talento al servizio della verità divina! Non chiudete il vostro spirito al soffio dello Spirito Santo! (Papa Paolo VI)
Sometimes we try to correct or convert a sinner by scolding him, by pointing out his mistakes and wrongful behaviour. Jesus’ attitude toward Zacchaeus shows us another way: that of showing those who err their value, the value that God continues to see in spite of everything (Pope Francis)
A volte noi cerchiamo di correggere o convertire un peccatore rimproverandolo, rinfacciandogli i suoi sbagli e il suo comportamento ingiusto. L’atteggiamento di Gesù con Zaccheo ci indica un’altra strada: quella di mostrare a chi sbaglia il suo valore, quel valore che continua a vedere malgrado tutto (Papa Francesco)
Deus dilexit mundum! God observes the depths of the human heart, which, even under the surface of sin and disorder, still possesses a wonderful richness of love; Jesus with his gaze draws it out, makes it overflow from the oppressed soul. To Jesus, therefore, nothing escapes of what is in men, of their total reality, in which good and evil are (Pope Paul VI)
Deus dilexit mundum! Iddio osserva le profondità del cuore umano, che, anche sotto la superficie del peccato e del disordine, possiede ancora una ricchezza meravigliosa di amore; Gesù col suo sguardo la trae fuori, la fa straripare dall’anima oppressa. A Gesù, dunque, nulla sfugge di quanto è negli uomini, della loro totale realtà, in cui sono il bene e il male (Papa Paolo VI)
People dragged by chaotic thrusts can also be wrong, but the man of Faith perceives external turmoil as opportunities
Un popolo trascinato da spinte caotiche può anche sbagliare, ma l’uomo di Fede percepisce gli scompigli esterni quali opportunità
O Lord, let my faith be full, without reservations, and let penetrate into my thought, in my way of judging divine things and human things (Pope Paul VI)
O Signore, fa’ che la mia fede sia piena, senza riserve, e che essa penetri nel mio pensiero, nel mio modo di giudicare le cose divine e le cose umane (Papa Paolo VI)
«Whoever tries to preserve his life will lose it; but he who loses will keep it alive» (Lk 17:33)
«Chi cercherà di conservare la sua vita, la perderà; ma chi perderà, la manterrà vivente» (Lc 17,33)
«E perciò, si afferma, a buon diritto, che egli [s. Francesco d’Assisi] viene simboleggiato nella figura dell’angelo che sale dall’oriente e porta in sé il sigillo del Dio vivo» (FF 1022)
don Giuseppe Nespeca
Tel. 333-1329741
Disclaimer
Questo blog non rappresenta una testata giornalistica in quanto viene aggiornato senza alcuna periodicità. Non può pertanto considerarsi un prodotto editoriale ai sensi della legge N°62 del 07/03/2001.
Le immagini sono tratte da internet, ma se il loro uso violasse diritti d'autore, lo si comunichi all'autore del blog che provvederà alla loro pronta rimozione.
L'autore dichiara di non essere responsabile dei commenti lasciati nei post. Eventuali commenti dei lettori, lesivi dell'immagine o dell'onorabilità di persone terze, il cui contenuto fosse ritenuto non idoneo alla pubblicazione verranno insindacabilmente rimossi.