The dark, allied aspect

(Lk 7:11-17)

Na'im means Delightful: a symbol of all pleasant and laughing places, where life flows peacefully until the day when carefreeness ends: smiles turn to tears and songs to lament.

There are always two processions, and two guides. The procession of death arrives to pick everyone up: it is preceded by a corpse.

Destiny that we abate and attempt to exorcise, but - beyond distraction - it distresses us to imagine that the physical end is a path of no return.

Who can stop humanity's march towards the grave?

Here in the opposite direction comes another procession, preceded by the Lord of Life, who has the upper hand.

In the common opinion of religions, impurity is contagious, is transmitted immediately by contact, and even prevails over holiness.

According to the rabbis themselves, if, for example, an object had come into contact with the flap of a priestly cloak, it would not have been sanctified, despite having touched a holy person.

But if the same object had touched a corpse, it would have become unclean. 

Rambling fixations and extravagant idols, typical of superstition.

Christ deliberately and blatantly breaks both the law of purity and the custom of common thought.

In the path of Faith he proposes, not only does life prevail over death, but death itself has nothing unclean about it.

The reality that bewilders us all is no longer a dark frontier, but a mouth.

It ushers us into the fullness, the complete expression and flowering of our potential.

[In this way, the Paschal Announcement resounds as a source of expectation of the One who makes all death pure, and transforms it into a Womb of Life].

The 'widow' Israel had been deprived of the affection of the Bridegroom by the deleterious work of false official guides.

That nation had thus found itself begetting spiritually moribund children from their youth.

Infecund, sterile, doomed to loneliness [in Hebrew, the term Israel is feminine]. That is: without the true Son of God.

A people deprived of the Messiah, therefore without a future.

Alongside this central message, Lk - evangelist of the needy - wants to draw the attention of his communities to those who are left alone.

«And Jesus gave him to his Mother» (Lk 7:15b).

The Church has the task of restoring children or family to those who have lost them.

The fraternity must respect and care for those who mourn loneliness.

Like Jesus, it differs from all other competitive forms of devotion because it revives, restores the affections, restores balance and the will to succeed.

It always marks a triumph of life over the gloom of the tombs.

To internalise and live the message:

How have you experienced the injection of life that the Risen One has provided you by moving from the procession of religion supine to the graveyard to the company of Faith and the horizon of the Father and the Son in the Spirit?

Have you experienced the life-giving closeness of the brethren of faith in bereavement? (How) have you experienced Christ in them who restores life and affection?

The dark aspect

Pope Francis said: "In order to give himself to us, God often chooses unthinkable paths, perhaps those of our limitations, our tears, our defeats.

The Lord's call is not Manichean, but profound.

Our behaviour has fascinating roots. Lights and shadows of our being remain in dynamic relationship.

At times, however, our discomforts or distortions are the result of an excess of 'light' - detached from its opposite. 

Such excess is willingly associated with the claim to exorcise the dark aspect in us, which we would like to conceal for social reasons.

It seems to us that the business card should only reflect our bright, loose, serious, and performing appearance.

Perhaps, a moral style all of a piece - at least at first glance.

However, those who become attached to their bright side and even try to promote it for reasons of look (also ecclesiastical), established culture, habit (also religious), run the risk of enhancing the other side.

Beware: in every man there is always a side that misfires, that fails; and not one-sidedly.

Perhaps it is precisely in those who preach the good that there is the most pronounced danger of neglecting its co-present opposite - which sooner or later will break through, will find its space.

Blowing up the whole house of cards. But to achieve something alternative and absolutely not contrived.

For those who embark on a path of 'perfection', their own counterpart only seems a danger.

And conditioned by the models, we continue to play [our] already identified 'part'.

Yet in the dark side are hidden resources that the light-only side does not have.

In the dark side we read our character seed.

Here is the therapy and healing of the discomforts that we rush to conceal (in the family, with friends, in the community, at work).The dark aspects [selfishness, coldness, closure, introversion, sadness] lurk within; no point in denying it.

It is rather worth considering them as a source of characterising primordial energies.

It is indeed concealment - sometimes depression itself - that makes us fish for unimaginable solutions.

As if we were a grain planted in the earth, which wants its existence. And it finally wants natural life, which develops its capacities.

It is precisely the emotions that we dislike and ourselves detest - like the muddy, dark earth - that reconnect us with our deepest essence.

In short, the unpleasant emotional states will be the well from which other ideas, other guiding 'images', new insights; different sap come to us. And change.

Light does not possess all possibilities, all dynamism. On the contrary, it not infrequently seems to be declined [by the same traditions, or cultural fashions] in a fictitious, reductive way.

In chiaroscuro, conversely, we no longer pretend. For it is the foundation of the house of the soul.

All this we consider, for a solid harmony, which arises from within.

Paradoxes of the Personal Vocation: if we did not follow it to the full, we would continue to follow misconceptions, or the styles of others.

And we would become sick. Evil will take over.

If we are structured on an abstract, local, or bogus identity, this is where the storm could destroy everything.

In our trial and error, [alongside] we have to keep all the aspects - which we have come to know over time, and realised are part of us.

This will change the solidity of our relationship with ourselves, others, nature, history, and the world.

Here the dark aspect becomes an ally.

The harmony between conduct and intention of the heart overcomes hypocrisy, but conformity between Word and life is not set up by practising automatisms, nor by surrendering to others' convictions.

In the post-lockdown we are realising this sharply.

Gaslini project was born in the heart of a generous benefactor, the industrialist and Senator Gerolamo Gaslini, who dedicated this institute to his daughter who died when she was only 12 years old. It is part of the history of charity which makes Genoa a "city of Christian charity". Today too, faith inspires in many people of good will acts of love and material support for this Institute, which, with justifiable pride, the Genoese regard as a precious patrimony. I thank you all and encourage you to continue. In particular, I rejoice at the new complex whose foundation stone was laid recently and which has found a munificent donor. The effective, cordial attention of the public Administration is also a sign of recognition for the social value of the Gaslini institute for the children of the City and beyond. Indeed, when a good is destined for all it deserves the contribution of all, with the proper respect for roles and competence.

I now address you, dear doctors, researchers, paramedical and administrative staff; and you, dear chaplains, volunteers and all who are involved in offering spiritual assistance to the small patients and their relatives. I know that you are unanimously committed to ensuring that the Gaslini Institute is an authentic "sanctuary of life" and a "sanctuary of the family", where workers in every sector combine loving attention for the person with their professionalism. The decision of the Founder, who held that the President of the Foundation must be the pro-tempore Archbishop of Genoa, expresses the wish that the Christian inspiration of the Institute may never be lacking and that everyone may always be sustained by the Gospel values.

In 1931, when he was laying the foundations of the structure, Senator Gerolamo Gaslini predicted "the perennial work of good that must shine out from the Institute itself". Hence your Hospital's aim is to radiate goodness through the loving care of sick children. Therefore, while I thank all the personnel - managerial, administrative and medical - for their professionalism and dedicated service, I express the hope that this excellent Paediatric Institute may continue to develop its technologies, treatments and services, but also to extend its horizons increasingly in that perspective of positive globalization for which resources, services and needs are recognized, creating and reinforcing a network of solidarity that is so urgently needed today. And all this must never lack that supplement of affection which the little patients feel to be as important as the indispensable treatment. The Hospital will then become ever more a place of hope.

Hope at the Gaslini institute is expressed in the care of paediatric patients, for whom help is provided through the continuous formation of health-care workers. In fact, as an esteemed Institute for scientific research and treatment, your Hospital is known for being monothematic and multifunctional, covering almost all the specializations in the paediatric sector. Hence the hope that is fostered here is well-founded. Yet, to face the future effectively, it is indispensable that this hope be sustained by a loftier vision of life that enables the scientist, the doctor, the professional, the nurse and the parents themselves to devote all their capacities, sparing no efforts to obtain the best results that science and technology can offer today at the level of prevention and treatment. Then comes the thought of God's silent presence which, almost imperceptibly, accompanies the human being on his long journey through history. True "dependable" hope is God alone, who in Jesus Christ and in his Gospel opened wide the dark door of time to the future. "I am risen and now I am always with you", Jesus repeats to us, especially at the most difficult moments: "my hand supports you. Wherever you might fall, you will fall into my arms. I am present even at the threshold of death".

It is children who are treated here at the Gaslini institute. How is it possible not to recall Jesus' special love for children? He wanted them beside him, he pointed them out to the Apostles as models to follow in their spontaneous, generous faith, in their innocence. With harsh words he warned people against despising or shocking them. He was moved by the widow of Nain, a mother who had lost her son, her only son. The Evangelist Luke wrote that the Lord reassured her and said to her: "Do not weep" (cf. Lk 7: 13). Still today Jesus repeats these comforting words to those in pain: "Do not weep". He shows solidarity to each one of us and asks us if we want to be his disciples, to bear witness to his love for anyone who gets into difficulty.

Lastly, I address you, dearest children, to repeat to you that the Pope loves you. I see your relatives beside you, who share with you moments of anxiety and hope. You may all rest assured: God never abandons us. Stay united to him and you will never lose your calm, not even in the darkest and most difficult moments. I assure you of my remembrance in prayer and entrust you to Mary Most Holy who, as a Mother, suffered for the sufferings of her divine Son but now dwells with him in glory. I thank each one of you again for this meeting, which will remain impressed on my heart. I bless you all with affection.

[Pope Benedict, speech to the Gaslini of Genoa 18 May 2008]

Merciful Father,

Lord of life and death,

our fate is in your hands.

Look with kindness

upon the affliction of those

who mourn the death of loved ones:

sons, fathers, brothers, relatives, friends.

May they feel the presence of Christ

who comforted the widow of Naim

and the sisters of Lazarus,

for He is the resurrection and the life.

Help us to learn

from the mystery of sorrow

that we are pilgrims on earth.

(John Paul II)

In his homily today at Mass in the Santa Marta house, Pope Francis commented on the day's gospel, which tells of the widow of Naim, whose son Jesus resurrected. But Christ did more, the Pope observed: he showed himself close, sharing in the drama experienced by the woman. "He was close to the people," Bergoglio said. "God close who can understand the heart of the people, the heart of his people. Then he sees that procession, and the Lord draws near. God visits his people, in the midst of his people, and drawing near. Closeness. That is God's way. And then there is an expression that is repeated in the Bible, so many times: 'The Lord was moved with great compassion'. The same compassion that, the Gospel says, he had when he saw so many people like sheep without a shepherd. When God visits his people, he comes close to them and feels compassion: he is moved.The Lord is deeply moved, as he was before the tomb of Lazarus", as the Father is moved "when he saw the prodigal son come home".Christ shows us the way forward: 'Proximity and compassion'. Not to stay far away and preach, like "the doctors of the law, the scribes, the Pharisees", but to come close, "to suffer with the people".

Pope Francis wanted to highlight another passage from the Gospel: "The dead man sat down and began to speak, and he - Jesus - returned him to his mother.When God visits his people, he gives them back their hope. Always. One can preach the Word of God brilliantly: there have been many good preachers in history. But if these preachers have failed to sow hope, that preaching is useless. It is vanity'. For this reason, the Pontiff concluded, addressing an invitation to the faithful, we must "ask for the grace that our witness as Christians may be a witness bearer of God's visitation to his people, that is, of closeness that sows hope".

[Editor "Tempi", 16.9.2014.

https://www.tempi.it/papa-francesco-non-belle-prediche-ma-vicinanza-e-compassione-come-quelle-che-ebbe-gesu-con-la-vedova-di-naim/]

Mary in the Church, begetting sons

(Jn 19:25-27)

The short Gospel passage in vv.25-27 is perhaps the artistic apex of the Passion narrative.

In the fourth Gospel the Mother appears twice, at the wedding feast of Cana and at the foot of the Cross - both episodes present only in Jn.

Both at Cana and at the foot of the Cross, the Mother is a figure of the genuinely sensitive and faithful remnant of Israel.

The people-bride of the First Testament is as if waiting for the real Revelation: they perceive all the limitation of the ancient idea of God, which has reduced and extinguished the joy of the wedding feast between the Father and his sons.

Authentically worshipping Israel prompted the shift from religiosity to working Faith, from the old law to the New Testament.

An alternative Kingdom is generated at the foot of the Cross.

Mothers and fathers of a different humanity are being formed, proclaiming the Good News of God - this time for the exclusive benefit of every man, in whatever condition he may find himself.

In the theological intent of John, the Words of Jesus «Woman, behold your son» and «Behold, the Mother of yours» were intended to help settle and harmonise the strong tensions that at the end of the first century were already pitting different currents of thought about Christ against each other.

Among them: Judaizers; advocates of the primacy of faith over works; Laxists, who now considered Jesus anathema, intending to supplant Him with a generic freedom of spirit without history.

At the beginning of second century, Marcion rejected the entire First Testament and appreciated only a part of the New.

To those who now wanted to disregard the teaching of the 'fathers', Jesus proposed to make the past and novelty walk together.

The beloved disciple, icon of the authentic son of God [widespread Word-event (of New Testament)] must receive the Mother, the culture of the Covenant people, at Home - that is, in the nascent Church.

Yet, even if it is in the Christian community that the full meaning of the whole of Scripture is discovered… the Person, the story and the Word of Christ Himself cannot be understood nor will it bear concrete fruit without the ancient root that generated Him.

Projections alone are not enough, even if they shake the mental prisons, often edifices of false certainties: the Seed is not an enemy to be fought, but a virtue that comes from deep within.

The Alliance is precious, it gives the real jolt to life. Thus new family relationships flourish: then the Church is born.

And the Church raised up by its Lord will reveal something portentous: fruitfulness from nullity, life from the outpouring of it, birth from apparent sterility.

In Mary and the faithful icons generated from the breast of Christ - inseparable in the Mission - the intimate cooperation is intensified by moments of humble and silent community existence.

In perfect worshipping the identity-character of the Crucified One and in the movement of self-giving, the freedom of abasing oneself gaits and arises.

If anyone gets down, the new will advance.

And the old can also re-emerge, this time for good. For there are other Heights. For what makes one intimate with God is nothing external.

A river of unimagined attunements will reconnect the human spirit of believers to the motherly work of the Spirit without barriers.

Thus, in silence we will not oppose discomfort. The offended body will speak, manifesting the soul and filling the life, in a crescendo.

To internalize and live the message:

How do you get into the rhythm of this Gospel passage? In which character do you recognise yourself, or why do you see yourself in all of them? What is in each one your measure, which you give to the world?

[Blessed Virgin Mary of Sorrows, September 15]

Mary in the Church, who gives birth to sons

(Jn 19:25-27)

The brief passage of the Gospel in verses 25-27 is perhaps the artistic climax of the Passion narrative.

In the fourth Gospel, the Mother appears twice, at the wedding at Cana and at the foot of the Cross - both episodes found only in John.

Both at Cana and at the foot of the Cross, the Mother is a figure of the rest of Israel, authentically sensitive and faithful.

The people-bride of the First Testament are as if waiting for the real Revelation: they perceive all the limitations of the ancient idea of God, which has reduced and extinguished the joy of the wedding feast between the Father and his children.

The authentically adoring Israel brought about the transition from religiosity to active Faith, from the ancient law to the New Testament.

At the foot of the Cross, an alternative Kingdom is generated.

Fathers and mothers of a different humanity are formed, proclaiming the Good News of God - this time exclusively in favour of every person, whatever their condition.

In the theological intent of John, Jesus' words 'Woman, behold your son' and 'Behold, your Mother' were intended to help resolve and harmonise the strong tensions that already existed at the end of the first century between the different currents of thought on Christ.

Among them were the Judaizers, who believed in the primacy of faith over works, and the Laxists, who considered Jesus anathema and wanted to replace him with a generic freedom of spirit without history.

At the beginning of the second century, Marcion rejected the entire First Testament and seems to have appreciated only part of the New Testament.

To those who now wanted to disregard the teaching of the 'fathers', Jesus proposed to bring together the past and the new.

The beloved disciple, icon of the authentic son of God [Word-event spread throughout the New Testament], must receive the Mother, the culture of the people of the Covenant, into his home - that is, into the nascent Church.

Yet, even if it is in the Christian community that the full meaning of all Scripture is discovered, the Person, the story and the Word of Christ himself cannot be understood nor will they bear concrete fruit with the many dreams ahead, without the ancient root that generated them.

Projections alone are not enough, even if they shake mental prisons, often built on false certainties: the Seed is not an enemy to be fought, but a virtue that comes from deep within.

The Covenant is precious; it gives life a genuine jolt. Thus, new family relationships flourish: then the Church is born.

And the Church raised up by her Lord will reveal something portentous: fruitfulness from nothingness, life from the outpouring of it, birth from apparent sterility.

In Mary and in the faithful icons generated from the breast of Christ - inseparable in the Mission - the intimate cooperation intensifies the moments of a humble and silent community life.

In the perfect adoration of the identity-character of the Crucified One and in the movement of self-giving, the freedom to let go advances.

If someone lays down, the new will advance.

And even the old may re-emerge, this time everlasting. Because there are other Heights. Because what makes us intimate with God is nothing external.

A river of unimagined harmonies will reconnect the human spirit of believers to the maternal work of the Spirit without barriers.

The Tao Te Ching (xxii) says: 'If you bend, you preserve yourself; if you bow, you straighten yourself; if you hollow yourself, you fill yourself; if you wear yourself out, you renew yourself; if you aim for little, you obtain; if you aim for much, you remain disappointed. For this reason, the saint preserves the One [the maximum of the little], and becomes a model [sets the standard] for the world. He does not see by himself, therefore he is enlightened; he does not approve by himself, therefore he shines; he does not glory by himself, therefore he has merit; he does not exalt himself, therefore he lasts long. Precisely because he does not contend, no one in the world can contend with him. What the ancients said: if you bend, you preserve yourself, were these perhaps empty words? In truth, they were whole'.

In this way, in silence, we will not oppose hardship. The offended body will speak, manifesting the soul and filling life, in a crescendo.

To internalise and live the message:

How do you enter into the rhythm of this passage from the Gospel? Which character do you identify with, or why do you see yourself in all of them? What is your measure in each of them, what do you give to the world?

Blood Water: Body still torn apart

Blood and Water: life given and life transmitted

(Jn 19:31-37)

The Lord's cruel departure is not an end: it inaugurates new life, albeit amid gruesome signs and true death.

The Crucified One saves: he communicates a life of salvation. He takes us from one world to another: only in this sense does the ancient Passover coincide with the new one.

His is a Liberation and Redemption that goes far beyond the ritual promises of propitiatory sacrifices and the religion of purification.

The Blood of Christ is here a figure of the ultimate Gift of Love. The Water from the same pierced side is that which is assimilated and makes us grow.This supreme Friendship, given and received, conquers every form of death, because it offers a double principle of indestructible life: the acceptance of an ever-new proposal, and growth wave upon wave.

Thus, the Jewish feast of liberation is replaced by Christian Easter - and by the signs of the essential Sacraments.

In the body of Jesus and in those of the men crucified alongside him, John sees the brotherhood of the Son with the human race, which is also made a divine sanctuary.

With Jesus dead, we too can follow him [criminals whose legs are broken] because no one can take the life of the Risen One, even if they try to do so to the unfortunate ones with him.

In fact, the 'piercing' of Christ's Body continues even after his death on the Cross (v. 34): hostility towards him will not subside; on the contrary, it wants to destroy him forever.

But from his pierced Body [the authentic Church] will continue to flow dizzying love and finally the joy of a festive banquet, as promised since the wedding at Cana.

The evangelist's testimony becomes the solemn foundation of the faith of future disciples. And faith will replace the yoke of religion already written down.

Thus, the author invites each of us to write our own Gospel (Jn 20:30-31) in the experience of the paradoxes and salvation of God, who has reached us precisely from our sins or uncertain situations.

Future disciples are proclaimed blessed (Jn 20:29) precisely because they 'have not seen' that spectacle with their eyes.

However, they recognised it in themselves and in their own journey, repeatedly experiencing the place of Mercy in their own weaknesses.

Maternal sense, not a Church of bachelors

On 21 May, at Santa Marta, Pope Francis celebrated Mass for the first time in memory of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of the Church: from this year, in fact, the feast day in the general Roman calendar is celebrated on the Monday after Pentecost, as decreed by the Pontiff in the decree Ecclesia mater of the Congregation for Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments (11 February 2018), precisely to "foster the growth of the maternal sense of the Church in pastors, religious and the faithful, as well as genuine Marian piety".

"In the Gospels, whenever Mary is mentioned, she is referred to as 'the mother of Jesus'," Francis immediately pointed out in his homily, referring to the Gospel passage from John (19:25-34). And even if "the word 'mother' is not used in the Annunciation, the context is one of motherhood: the mother of Jesus," said the Pope, emphasising that "this maternal attitude accompanies her work throughout the life of Jesus: she is a mother." So much so, he continued, "that in the end Jesus gives her as a mother to his own, in the person of John: 'I am leaving, but this is your mother'." Here, then, is "Mary's motherhood."

"The words of Our Lady are the words of a mother," explained the Pope. And so are "all of them: after those at the beginning, of willingness to God's will and praise to God in the Magnificat, all the words of Our Lady are the words of a mother." She is always "with her Son, even in her attitudes: she accompanies her Son, she follows her Son." And again, "before, in Nazareth, she raises him, nurtures him, educates him, but then she follows him: 'Your mother is there.'" Mary "is a mother from the beginning, from the moment she appears in the Gospels, from that moment of the Annunciation until the end, she is a mother." She is not referred to as "the lady" or "the widow of Joseph" — and in reality "they could have said so" — but Mary is always "a mother".

"The Fathers of the Church understood this well," said the Pontiff, "and they also understood that Mary's motherhood does not end with her; it goes beyond." The Fathers always "say that Mary is mother, the Church is mother, and your soul is mother: there is something feminine in the Church, which is maternal." Therefore, Francis explained, "the Church is feminine because she is 'church', 'bride': she is feminine and she is mother, she gives birth." She is, therefore, "bride and mother," but "the Fathers go further and say: 'Your soul is also bride of Christ and mother.'"

"In this attitude that comes from Mary, who is the mother of the Church," the Pope pointed out, "we can understand this feminine dimension of the Church: when it is not there, the Church loses its true identity and becomes a charitable association or a football team or anything else, but not the Church."

"The Church is 'woman'," Francis reiterated, "and when we think about the role of women in the Church, we must go back to this source: Mary, mother." And "the Church is 'woman' because she is mother, because she is capable of 'giving birth to children': her soul is feminine because she is mother, she is capable of giving birth to attitudes of fruitfulness."

"Mary's motherhood is a great thing," insisted the Pontiff. In fact, God "wanted to be born of a woman to teach us this way." Moreover, "God fell in love with his people as a husband with his wife: this is said in the Old Testament. And it is "a great mystery." As a consequence, Francis continued, "we can think" that "if the Church is a mother, women must have roles in the Church: yes, it is true, they must have roles, many roles, and thank God there are more roles for women in the Church."

But "this is not the most significant thing," the Pope warned, because "the important thing is that the Church is woman, that she has this attitude of bride and mother." With the awareness that "when we forget this, it is a masculine Church without this dimension, and sadly it becomes a Church of bachelors, who live in this isolation, incapable of love, incapable of fruitfulness." Therefore, the Pontiff affirmed, "without women, the Church does not move forward, because she is a woman, and this attitude of a woman comes from Mary, because Jesus wanted it that way."

In this regard, Francis also wanted to point out "the gesture, I would say the attitude, that most distinguishes the Church as a woman, the virtue that most distinguishes her as a woman." And he suggested recognising it in "Mary's gesture at the birth of Jesus: 'She gave birth to her firstborn son, wrapped him in swaddling clothes and laid him in a manger.'" An image in which we find "the tenderness of every mother towards her child: caring for him with tenderness, so that he does not hurt himself, so that he is well covered." And "tenderness" is therefore also "the attitude of the Church, which feels like a woman and feels like a mother."

"St Paul — we heard him yesterday, we also prayed to him in the breviary — reminds us of the virtues of the Spirit and speaks to us of meekness, humility, these so-called 'passive' virtues," said the Pope, pointing out that instead "they are the strong virtues, the virtues of mothers." Thus, he added, "a Church that is a mother walks the path of tenderness; she knows the language of the great wisdom of caresses, of silence, of a gaze that speaks of compassion, that speaks of silence." And "even a soul, a person who lives this belonging to the Church, knowing that she too is a mother, must walk the same path: a meek, tender, smiling person, full of love."

"Mary, mother; the Church, mother; our soul, mother," Francis repeated, inviting us to think "about this great richness of the Church and ours; and let the Holy Spirit fertilise us, us and the Church, so that we too may become mothers to others, with attitudes of tenderness, meekness, humility. We are certain that this is Mary's way." And, in conclusion, the Pope also pointed out how "curious Mary's language is in the Gospels: when she speaks to her Son, it is to tell him things that others need; and when she speaks to others, it is to tell them: 'do whatever he tells you'."

[Pope Francis, homily at St. Martha's, in L'Osservatore Romano, 22 May 2018]

Yesterday we celebrated the Cross of Christ, the instrument of our salvation, which reveals the mercy of our God in all its fullness. The Cross is truly the place where God’s compassion for our world is perfectly manifested. Today, as we celebrate the memorial of Our Lady of Sorrows, we contemplate Mary sharing her Son’s compassion for sinners. As Saint Bernard declares, the Mother of Christ entered into the Passion of her Son through her compassion (cf. Homily for Sunday in the Octave of the Assumption). At the foot of the Cross, the prophecy of Simeon is fulfilled: her mother’s heart is pierced through (cf. Lk 2:35) by the torment inflicted on the Innocent One born of her flesh. Just as Jesus cried (cf. Jn 11:35), so too Mary certainly cried over the tortured body of her Son. Her self-restraint, however, prevents us from plumbing the depths of her grief; the full extent of her suffering is merely suggested by the traditional symbol of the seven swords. As in the case of her Son Jesus, one might say that she too was led to perfection through this suffering (cf. Heb 2:10), so as to make her capable of receiving the new spiritual mission that her Son entrusts to her immediately before “giving up his spirit” (cf. Jn 19:30): that of becoming the mother of Christ in his members. In that hour, through the figure of the beloved disciple, Jesus presents each of his disciples to his Mother when he says to her: Behold your Son (cf. Jn 19:26-27).

Today Mary dwells in the joy and the glory of the Resurrection. The tears shed at the foot of the Cross have been transformed into a smile which nothing can wipe away, even as her maternal compassion towards us remains unchanged. The intervention of the Virgin Mary in offering succour throughout history testifies to this, and does not cease to call forth, in the people of God, an unshakable confidence in her: the Memorare prayer expresses this sentiment very well. Mary loves each of her children, giving particular attention to those who, like her Son at the hour of his Passion, are prey to suffering; she loves them quite simply because they are her children, according to the will of Christ on the Cross.

The psalmist, seeing from afar this maternal bond which unites the Mother of Christ with the people of faith, prophesies regarding the Virgin Mary that “the richest of the people … will seek your smile” (Ps 44:13). In this way, prompted by the inspired word of Scripture, Christians have always sought the smile of Our Lady, this smile which medieval artists were able to represent with such marvellous skill and to show to advantage. This smile of Mary is for all; but it is directed quite particularly to those who suffer, so that they can find comfort and solace therein. To seek Mary’s smile is not an act of devotional or outmoded sentimentality, but rather the proper expression of the living and profoundly human relationship which binds us to her whom Christ gave us as our Mother.

To wish to contemplate this smile of the Virgin, does not mean letting oneself be led by an uncontrolled imagination. Scripture itself discloses it to us through the lips of Mary when she sings the Magnificat: “My soul glorifies the Lord, my spirit exults in God my Saviour” (Lk 1:46-47). When the Virgin Mary gives thanks to the Lord, she calls us to witness. Mary shares, as if by anticipation, with us, her future children, the joy that dwells in her heart, so that it can become ours. Every time we recite the Magnificat, we become witnesses of her smile.

[Pope Benedict, homily at Lourdes, 15 September 2008]

1. "Stabat Mater dolorosa . . .".

"The sorrowful Mother stood weeping at the Cross, from which her Son hung."

Today, 15 September, the liturgical calendar commemorates the sorrows of the Blessed Virgin Mary. It is preceded by the feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross, which we celebrated yesterday.

What a shocking mystery the Cross is! After meditating on it at length, St. Paul wrote to the Christians of Galatia: "As for me, there is no other boast than the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world has been crucified to me, as I to the world" (Gal 6:14).

The Blessed Virgin could also have repeated these same words, and with even greater truth! Contemplating her dying Son on Calvary, she understood that the "boast" of her divine motherhood reached its peak at that moment by participating directly in the work of Redemption. She also understood that human suffering, taken on by her crucified Son, now acquired an inestimable value.

2. Today, therefore, the Sorrowful Virgin, standing beside the Cross, speaks to us with the silent eloquence of her example about the meaning of suffering in the divine plan of Redemption.

She was the first to know and desire to participate in the mystery of salvation, "associating herself with a maternal heart with the sacrifice of Christ, lovingly consenting to the immolation of the victim she had brought forth" (Lumen Gentium, 58). Deeply enriched by this ineffable experience, she approaches those who suffer, takes them by the hand, and invites them to climb Calvary with her and to pause before the Crucified One.

In that tortured body is the only convincing answer to the questions that rise imperiously from the heart. And with the answer comes the strength necessary to take one's place in that struggle which, as I wrote in the Apostolic Letter Salvifici doloris, pits the forces of good against those of evil (cf. Ioannis Pauli PP. II, Salvifici doloris, n. 27). And I added: "Those who share in the sufferings of Christ preserve in their own sufferings a very special particle of the infinite treasure of the Redemption of the world, and they can share this treasure with others" (Ibid.).

3. Let us ask Our Lady of Sorrows to nourish in us the firmness of faith and the ardour of charity, so that we may courageously carry our daily cross (cf. Lk 9:23) and thus participate effectively in the work of Redemption.

"Fac ut ardeat cor meum . . .", "Make my heart burn with love for Christ God, so that I may be pleasing to him!". Amen!

[Pope John Paul II, Angelus, 15 September 1991]

In a world of orphans, Mary is the mother who understands us completely and defends us, not least because she experienced first-hand the same humiliations that, for example, the mothers of prisoners suffer today. Celebrating Mass in the chapel of Casa Santa Marta on Thursday morning, 15 September, the day of remembrance of the Blessed Virgin Mary of Sorrows, Pope Francis suggested that in difficult times we should always take refuge 'under the mantle' of the Mother of God, thus reviving 'the spiritual advice of the Russian mystics' that the West has relaunched with the antiphon Sub tuum preasidium.
For his meditation on "the mystery of Mary's motherhood," the Pontiff took his cue from the Last Supper: "Jesus, at the table, bids farewell to his disciples: there is an air of sadness, everyone knew that something was going to end badly and they asked questions, they were sad." But "Jesus, in that farewell, to give them a little courage and also to prepare them in hope, says to them: 'Do not be sad, do not let your hearts be sad, I will not leave you alone! I will ask the Father to send another Paraclete, who will accompany you. And he will teach you everything and remind you of all that I have said'." The Lord, therefore, "promises to send the Holy Spirit to accompany the disciples, the Church, on the path of history."
But Jesus "also speaks of the Father." In fact, Francis recalled, "in that long, long discourse with the disciples, he speaks of the Father," assuring them "that the Father loves them and that whatever they ask of the Father, the Father will give them. That they should trust in the Father." And so, the Pope explained, he takes "one more step: he not only says 'I will not leave you alone', but also 'I will not leave you orphans, I give you the Father, the Father is with you, my Father is your Father'." Then, Francis continued, "everything we know happens after the supper: the humiliation, the prison, the betrayal of the disciples; Peter denies Jesus, the others flee."
So much so that, said the Pontiff, referring to the liturgical passage from the Gospel of John (19:25-27), under the cross there was "only one disciple, with the mother of Jesus, with Mary Magdalene and the other Mary, a relative." And there, at the cross, "there is Mary, the mother of Jesus: everyone was looking at her," perhaps whispering, "That is the mother of this criminal! That is the mother of this subversive!" And Mary, added the Pope, "heard these things, suffered terrible humiliation and also heard the elders, some priests whom she respected because they were priests," say to Jesus: "But you who are so good, come down, come down!". Mary, Francis said, standing next to "her Son, naked, there, suffered greatly, but she did not leave, she did not deny her Son, he was her flesh."
With personal confidence, the Pope recalled: "It happened many times when I went to the prisons in the diocese of Buenos Aires to visit the prisoners, to see the queue, the line of women waiting to enter: they were mothers, but they were not ashamed, their flesh was in there." And those "women suffered not only the shame of being there," hearing people say: "Look at her, what must her son have done?" Those mothers "also suffered the worst humiliations in the searches that were carried out on them before they entered, but they were mothers and they were going to visit their own flesh." And so it was for Mary, who "was there, with her Son, with that great suffering."
Precisely "at that moment," the Pope pointed out, "Jesus, who had spoken of not leaving us orphans, who had spoken of the Father, looks at his mother and gives her to us as our mother: 'Behold, your mother!'" The Lord "does not leave us orphans: we Christians have a mother, the same as Jesus; we have a Father, the same as Jesus. We are not orphans." And Mary "gives birth to us at that moment with so much pain, it is truly a martyrdom: with her heart pierced, she accepts to give birth to all of us in that moment of pain. And from that moment she becomes our mother, from that moment she is our mother, the one who takes care of us and is not ashamed of us: she defends us."
"The Russian mystics of the early centuries of the Church," Francis recalled in this regard, "gave advice to their disciples, the young monks: in times of spiritual turmoil, take refuge under the mantle of the holy mother of God. The devil cannot enter there because she is a mother and as a mother she defends." Then "the West took this advice and composed the first Marian antiphon, Sub tuum praesidium: under your mantle, under your protection, O Mother, there we are safe."
"Today is the memory of the moment when Our Lady gave birth to us," the Pope continued, "and she has been faithful to this birth until today and will continue to be faithful." And "in a world that we can call 'orphaned', in this world that suffers from a crisis of great orphanhood, perhaps our help is to say: 'Look to your mother!'" Because we have a mother "who defends us, teaches us, accompanies us, who is not ashamed of our sins" and "is not ashamed, because she is a mother."
In conclusion, the Pontiff prayed "that the Holy Spirit, this friend, this companion on the journey, this Paraclete advocate whom the Lord has sent us, may help us understand this great mystery of Mary's motherhood."
[Pope Francis, St. Martha, in L'Osservatore Romano, 16/09/2016]

23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time (year C)  [7 September 2025]

May God bless us and may the Virgin Mary protect us! In this Sunday's Gospel, Jesus develops the 'precautionary principle', which is also enshrined in Article 191 of the Treaty on the Functioning of the European Union (TFEU). This proves that the Word of God is divine wisdom which, as we understand in the first reading and in the responsorial psalm, illuminates every human choice and decision.  Wisdom that is always the secret of true happiness.

*First Reading from the Book of Wisdom (9:13-18)

Wisdom, in the biblical sense, is in some ways the art of living. Israel, like all neighbouring peoples, developed extensive reflection on this theme beginning with the reign of Solomon, and its contribution in this field is entirely original. It can be summarised in two points: first of all, according to the Bible, only God knows the secrets of happiness, and if man claims to discover them on his own, he follows false paths, as is clear from the lesson of the Garden of Eden. Secondly, God alone reveals the secret of happiness to his people and to all humanity: this is the message of this text, which is above all a lesson in humility. Isaiah had already stated that God's thoughts and ways are different from ours (cf. Is 55:8), and the book of Wisdom, written much later in a very different style, repeats: 'Who can discover the will of God? Who can imagine what the Lord wants?" (v. 13). We cannot have the slightest idea of what God thinks, and we know only what He has communicated through His prophets. Job had asked where to seek wisdom, because it does not exist on the earth of the living, and only God knows where it is (cf. Job 28:12-13, 23); shortly afterwards, God reminds Job of his limitations (chapters 38–41) and, at the end of the demonstration, Job bows down and admits that he spoke without understanding  the wonders that "are beyond me and that I did not know" (Job 42:3). In the Book of Wisdom, the discussion on human knowledge develops among the most intellectual minds that existed in Alexandria, when scientific and philosophical disciplines were highly developed and the Library of Alexandria was famous. The author reminds these scholars of the limits of human knowledge: 'The reasoning of mortals is timid, and our reflections are uncertain' (v. 14). And again: 'We can scarcely imagine the things of the earth, we discover with difficulty those within our reach; but who has investigated the things of heaven? (v. 16). The author does not mean that if we can discover the earth, we will be able to understand heavenly things, but he affirms that it is not only a question of the level of knowledge, as if man could discover the mysteries of God through reasoning and research, but it is a question of nature: we are only human, and there is an abyss between God and us, God being the Totally Other and his thoughts being beyond our reach. Herein lies the second lesson of the text: if we recognise our powerlessness, God himself reveals to us what we cannot discover on our own, giving us the gift of his Spirit (cf. 1:9). The other readings for this Sunday indicate the new behaviours inspired by the Spirit who dwells in us. One more observation: in verse 14, 'a corruptible body weighs down the soul, and the clay tent oppresses a mind full of worries', we see a conception of man that is unusual in the Bible, which usually insists on the unity of the human being, whereas here he is described as a being composed of an immaterial spirit and a material shell that contains it. The Book of Wisdom, written in a Greek context, uses this vocabulary so as not to scandalise its Greek readers, but it certainly does not want to describe a dualism of the human being: rather, it presents the inner struggle that takes place in each of us and which St Paul describes as follows: 'I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want' (Rom 7:19). Ultimately, this text makes an original contribution to a great dual biblical discovery: God is both Totally Other and Totally Near. God is Totally Other: 'Who can know the will of God? Who can imagine what the Lord wants?' (v. 13). At the same time, He makes Himself Totally Near by giving man wisdom and His Holy Spirit (v. 17). And so men were instructed in what is pleasing to God and were saved through wisdom (cf. v. 18).

*Responsorial Psalm (89/90:3-4, 5-6, 12-13, 14, 17)

The first reading, taken from the book of Wisdom, is echoed in this psalm, which offers a magnificent definition of wisdom: 'Teach us to count our days, and we will gain a wise heart' (v. 12). These verses give an idea of the general atmosphere, and one expression sounds quite unusual: 'Return, Lord, how long? Have mercy on your servants' (v. 13). It is as if to say: 'We are unhappy at this moment, we are being punished for our sins; forgive us and take away the punishment', a typical formula of a penitential liturgy in the context of a penitential ceremony in the temple of Jerusalem. Why does Israel ask for forgiveness? The first verses suggest the answer: 'You turn man back to dust, when you say: Return, children of man' (v. 3).  The problem is that our condition as sinners is linked to Adam, and the entire psalm meditates on the account of Adam's sin in the book of Genesis. In the beginning, God and man stood face to face: God, the creator, and man, his creature made from dust. The second verse (absent here) of the psalm says precisely: 'Before the mountains were born and the earth and the world were created, from everlasting to everlasting, you are God'. Before Him, we are but a handful of dust in His hands. Yet man dared to challenge God and can only meditate on his true condition: "The years of our life are seventy, eighty for the strongest, and their bustling is toil and disappointment; they pass quickly and we fly away" (v. 10).  And we are truly small: "A thousand years in your sight are like yesterday when it is past, like a watch in the night" (v. 4), as St Peter comments: "Do not ignore this one fact, beloved: with the Lord one day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like one day" (2 Pet 3:8). After this realisation comes the plea: “Teach us to count our days, that we may gain a wise heart. Return, Lord, how long? Have mercy on your servants. Satisfy us in the morning with your love, that we may rejoice and be glad all our days” (vv. 12-14). True wisdom is to remain small before God, and the psalm compares human life to grass that “in the morning it flourishes and sprouts, in the evening it is mown and withers” (v. 6). How often, when faced with sudden death, do we say that we are nothing! It is not a matter of humbling ourselves, but of being realistic and remaining serene in God’s hands. 'Satisfy us in the morning with your love: we will exult and rejoice all our days' (v. 14): this is the experience of the believer, aware of his own smallness and trusting in the hands of God, to whom we can ask that 'you make known to your servants your work and your splendour to their children. May the goodness of the Lord our God be upon us" (vv. 16-17a). Even more daring is the last verse of the psalm, which repeats twice, "Make firm the work of our hands" (v. 17). Perhaps the psalmist was referring to the reconstruction of the temple in Jerusalem after the Babylonian exile, amid all kinds of opposition. More generally, however, it expresses the common work of God and man in the fulfilment of creation: man works in creation, but it is God who gives human work stability and effectiveness. 

*Second Reading from the letter of St Paul the Apostle to Philemon (9b-10.12-17)

On previous Sundays, we read passages from Paul's letter to the Colossians; today, however, Paul, while in prison, writes to Philemon, a Christian from Colossae (in Turkey), and it is a personal letter, full of diplomacy, on a very delicate subject. Philemon probably had several slaves, although history does not specify this, and one of them was called Onesimus. One fine day, Onesimus ran away, which was totally forbidden and severely punished by Roman law because slaves belonged to their masters as objects and were not free to dispose of themselves. During his escape, Onesimus met Paul, converted and entered the apostle's service. It was a complicated situation: if Paul kept Onesimus, he would be complicit in his abandonment of his post, and Philemon would not like that. If, on the other hand, Paul sent him back, the slave would be at serious risk, as Paul acknowledges later in the letter that Onesimus was indebted to his master. However, he decided to send Onesimus back with a request for forgiveness, in which he used all his powers of persuasion to convince Philemon: 'I, Paul, as I am, an old man and now also a prisoner for Christ Jesus, appeal to you for my child Onesimus' (vv. 9-10). He points out that he would like to keep him, but he knows that the final decision rests with Philemon (vv. 12-14), so he does not intend to force Philemon's hand. However, he knows exactly what he wants to achieve and reveals it gradually. First of all, he asks Philemon to forgive Onesimus for running away, and more than simple forgiveness, Paul suggests a true conversion: Onesimus is baptised and is now a brother to Philemon, a Christian and his former master: "For this reason he was separated from you for a while, so that you might have him back forever, no longer as a slave, but much more than a slave, as a beloved brother" (vv. 15-16). Paul goes even further: "If you consider me a friend, welcome him as you would welcome me" (v. 17).

*From the Gospel according to Luke (14:25-33)

The ending illuminates the whole discourse: emphasising totality (the renunciation of all his possessions, v. 33), Luke re-proposes his theology of poverty as radical discipleship of Christ. Let us begin with the phrase concerning family ties (v. 26): Jesus does not say to consider them as nothing, because that would be contrary to all his teaching on love and to the commandment "Honour your father and your mother". Rather, he means that these ties are good, but they must not become obstacles that prevent us from following Christ because the bond that unites us to Christ through Baptism is stronger than any other earthly bond. The difficulty of this Gospel lies elsewhere: at first glance, the connection between the different parts is not clear. Jesus says: "If anyone comes to me and does not love me (in Eastern Semitic language, 'to hate' also means 'to love less') more than his father, his mother... he cannot be my disciple" (v. 26), a phrase that we find echoed (included) in the last one: "Anyone of you who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple". Between these two statements there are two short parables: that of the man who wants to build a tower and that of the king who goes to war. Their lesson is similar: whoever wants to build a tower must first calculate the cost so as not to embark on a senseless undertaking; in the same way, the king who plans to go to war must first assess his forces. Wisdom consists in adapting one's ambitions to one's possibilities: a truth that applies in every area. How many projects fail because they are started too hastily without reflection, foresight and calculation of the risks? This is elementary wisdom, the secret of success. In fact, to govern is to foresee, and perhaps one becomes an adult on the day one finally learns to calculate the consequences of one's actions. But does this not seem to contradict the message of the phrases that open and close Jesus' discourse? These seem to speak a language that is anything but prudent and measured: first of all, to be a disciple of Christ, one must prefer him to anyone else and follow him with all one's heart, yet wisdom and even justice require respect for natural ties with family and environment. The second requirement is to carry one's cross decisively, accepting the risk of persecution, and the third condition is to renounce all one's possessions. In short, to leave behind all emotional and material security for Christ. But is all this prudent? Does it not seem far removed from the arithmetic calculations of the two short parables? Yet it is clear that Jesus does not enjoy cultivating paradoxes and does not contradict himself. It is therefore up to us to understand his message and how the two short parables shed light on the choices we must make in order to follow him. On closer inspection, Jesus always says the same thing: before embarking on an undertaking, whether it be following him, building a tower or going to war, he invites us to do our sums carefully and not to make mistakes. Those who build a tower calculate the cost; those who go to war assess the number of men and weapons; and those who follow Christ must also do their calculations, but of a different kind: they must renounce anything that might hinder them and thus place all their riches, both emotional and material, at the service of the Kingdom. Above all, they must rely on the power of the Spirit who 'continues his work in the world and brings every sanctification to completion', as the fourth Eucharistic prayer says. Here too, it is a calculated risk: in order to follow Jesus, he points out the risks to us — knowing how to leave everything behind, accepting misunderstanding and sometimes persecution, renouncing immediate gratification. To be Christians, the true calculation, the true wisdom, is not to rely on any of our earthly securities; it is as if he were saying to us: Accept that you have no securities: my grace is enough for you! Already the first reading, taken from the book of Wisdom, clearly stated this: the wisdom of God is not that of men; what appears to be folly in the eyes of men is the only true wisdom before God. With him, we are always in the logic of the grain of wheat: accept to die underground, but only in this way can it sprout and bear fruit. Blessed are those who know how to free themselves from false precautions in order to prepare themselves to pass through the narrow gate mentioned in the Gospel of the twenty-first Sunday (Lk 13:24). 

NOTE Jesus develops here the 'precautionary principle' which is also enshrined in Article 191 of the Treaty on the Functioning of the European Union (TFEU). In the two parables, it is clear that we must sit down to calculate risks and costs, taking preventive measures - even in the absence of complete scientific evidence. In the case of the disciple, the data for the calculation are completely different: Jesus wants us to evaluate well that our only wealth is in him and our only strength is his grace. And even the assessment of risks and objectives eludes us: as the Book of Wisdom says in the first reading: 'Who can know the will of God? Who can imagine what the Lord wants? The reasoning of mortals is timid and our reflections uncertain'.

+ Giovanni D'Ercole