don Giuseppe Nespeca

don Giuseppe Nespeca

Giuseppe Nespeca è architetto e sacerdote. Cultore della Sacra scrittura è autore della raccolta "Due Fuochi due Vie - Religione e Fede, Vangeli e Tao"; coautore del libro "Dialogo e Solstizio".

Tuesday, 10 September 2024 10:34

Raising the Cross, bad reputation

Tuesday, 03 September 2024 12:36

Initiation into Faith

Monday, 26 August 2024 12:10

Models and Purity, Ideas and Ideal

Sunday, 18 August 2024 20:32

To Whom shall we go?

Monday, 05 August 2024 15:44

Flesh from the Sky, domestic style

Monday, 29 July 2024 11:13

Mysticism of Bread. Work-Gift of Seed

Monday, 15 July 2024 19:12

In the sidelines: holiday-Presence

A teenager travelled attached to a train for several kilometres.

It is neither the only nor the first madness among 'bored and satiated' teenagers [not all] to whom we parents have given, in my opinion, too much.

There are several dangerous games in vogue: jumping from one balcony to another, or similar feats; binge drinking, pretending to strangle oneself, hanging upside down.

I read on social media that the latest stunt is to beat up passers-by and put it all on the net (I don't know if this is reliable).

Such abnormal behaviour could perhaps be avoided if parents set limits, but often they don't have them either.

It is true that such behaviour may be due to emulation of some false myth.

But beyond these extreme behaviours, playing is important for the human being.

In ancient times, Aristotle likened the concept of play to joy and virtue, while Kant called it a 'pleasurable' activity.

In the 1938 book Homo Ludens, Huizinga says that culture is born in a playful form, because everything comes in the form of play; and by playing, the collective expresses the explanation of life: play does not change into culture, but culture initially has the character of play.

In psychology, play plays a key role in the psychological development of the child - above all, of his or her personality.

Roger Caillois in his book 'Games and Men' (Ed. Bompiani) groups playful activity into four substantial classes, depending on whether competition, chance, simulacrum or vertigo prevails in the game.

He named them Agon (competition), Alea (chance, fate), Mimicry (Mimicry, disguise), Ilings (Vertigo). This distinction groups games of the same species.

In the game we first find amusement, undisciplinedness, little control, to which the author gave the term 'paidia' to arrive later at a disciplined, rule-abiding activity (Ludus).

Agon represents personal merit and is manifested in both its muscular and intellectual forms.

Examples are sports competitions, but also games of intellectual ability. The main aim is to assert one's own superiority.

Alea is the Latin word for the dice game; here the player is helpless and relies on fate, on destiny.

Mimicry includes acting, mimicry, disguise. Man abandons his own personality to pretend another.

Mimicry is conjuring; for the actor, it is attracting the other person's attention.

The last class of games described by Caillois is called Ilings.

It consists in making the consciousness feel a considerable fright.

This bewilderment is usually sought for its own sake.

Caillois gives us the example of the dancing dervishes who seek intoxication by turning in on themselves to the increasing rhythm of drums and the fear consists in this frenzied turning in on themselves.

On the other hand, without looking for striking examples, every child knows the effect of whirling around.

This kind of play is not only found in human beings, but also in the animal world.

Dogs sometimes spin on themselves to catch their tails, until they fall off.

The author cites the case of chamois as indicative.

According to Karl Groos, 'they climb up snowfields and from there each one jumps up the slope while the others watch' with the risk of crashing down.

In the course of my profession, I have often encountered teenagers playing games of this kind.

Boys on mopeds challenging cars or running red lights. Or even worse, who played walking in a slightly inebriated state on the side of a bridge.

In the last years of my profession I noticed that several teenagers were getting cuts on their bodies.

The incidents reported in the media about these extreme behaviours should not be ignored.

Of course we have all had moments when we have felt a sense of vertigo: swings as children, or games at the various amusement parks come to mind.

With increasing affluence, society often produces more and more powerful cars and motorbikes.

And there [beyond the status symbol] is also a conscious or unconscious search for a sense of vertigo.

But it should be understood that by associating vertigo (ilings) with fate (alea)... the game becomes danger - sometimes deadly.

 

Francesco Giovannozzi psychologist-psychotherapist.

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I trust in the witness of those families that draw their energy from the sacrament of marriage; with them it becomes possible to overcome the trial that befalls them, to be able to forgive an offence, to accept a suffering child, to illumine the life of the other, even if he or she is weak or disabled, through the beauty of love. It is on the basis of families such as these that the fabric of society must be restored (Pope Benedict)
Ho fiducia nella testimonianza di quelle famiglie che traggono la loro energia dal sacramento del matrimonio; con esse diviene possibile superare la prova che si presenta, saper perdonare un'offesa, accogliere un figlio che soffre, illuminare la vita dell'altro, anche se debole e disabile, mediante la bellezza dell'amore. È a partire da tali famiglie che si deve ristabilire il tessuto della società (Papa Benedetto)
St Louis IX, King of France put into practice what is written in the Book of Sirach: "The greater you are, the more you must humble yourself; so you will find favour in the sight of the Lord" (3: 18). This is what the King wrote in his "Spiritual Testament to his son": "If the Lord grant you some prosperity, not only must you humbly thank him but take care not to become worse by boasting or in any other way, make sure, that is, that you do not come into conflict with God or offend him with his own gifts" (cf. Acta Sanctorum Augusti 5 [1868], 546) [Pope Benedict]
San Luigi IX, re di Francia […] ha messo in pratica ciò che è scritto nel Libro del Siracide: "Quanto più sei grande, tanto più fatti umile, e troverai grazia davanti al Signore" (3,18). Così egli scriveva nel suo "Testamento spirituale al figlio": "Se il Signore ti darà qualche prosperità, non solo lo dovrai umilmente ringraziare, ma bada bene a non diventare peggiore per vanagloria o in qualunque altro modo, bada cioè a non entrare in contrasto con Dio o offenderlo con i suoi doni stessi" (Acta Sanctorum Augusti 5 [1868], 546) [Papa Benedetto]
The temptation is to be “closed off”. The disciples would like to hinder a good deed simply because it is performed by someone who does not belong to their group. They think they have the “exclusive right over Jesus”, and that they are the only ones authorised to work for the Kingdom of God. But this way, they end up feeling that they are privileged and consider others as outsiders, to the extent of becoming hostile towards them (Pope Francis)
La tentazione è quella della chiusura. I discepoli vorrebbero impedire un’opera di bene solo perché chi l’ha compiuta non apparteneva al loro gruppo. Pensano di avere “l’esclusiva su Gesù” e di essere gli unici autorizzati a lavorare per il Regno di Dio. Ma così finiscono per sentirsi prediletti e considerano gli altri come estranei, fino a diventare ostili nei loro confronti (Papa Francesco)
“If any one would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all” (Mk 9:35) […] To preside at the Lord’s Supper is, therefore, an urgent invitation to offer oneself in gift, so that the attitude of the Suffering Servant and Lord may continue and grow in the Church (Papa Giovanni Paolo II)
"Se uno vuol essere il primo, sia l'ultimo di tutti e il servo di tutti" (Mc 9, 35) […] Presiedere la Cena del Signore è, pertanto, invito pressante ad offrirsi in dono, perché permanga e cresca nella Chiesa l'atteggiamento del Servo sofferente e Signore (Papa Giovanni Paolo II)
Miracles still exist today. But to allow the Lord to carry them out there is a need for courageous prayer, capable of overcoming that "something of unbelief" that dwells in the heart of every man, even if he is a man of faith. Prayer must "put flesh on the fire", that is, involve our person and commit our whole life, to overcome unbelief (Pope Francis)

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