Teresa Girolami

Teresa Girolami

Teresa Girolami è laureata in Materie letterarie e Teologia. Ha pubblicato vari testi, fra cui: "Pellegrinaggio del cuore" (Ed. Piemme); "I Fiammiferi di Maria - La Madre di Dio in prosa e poesia"; "Tenerezza Scalza - Natura di donna"; co-autrice di "Dialogo e Solstizio".

Jesus compares the kingdom of heaven to a wedding banquet.

The guests do not care to attend the king's banquet, and the servants are sent to gather those they find in the streets, but in their wedding garments.

«For many are called, but few chosen» (Mt 22:14).

Let us now look at the Poor Man of Assisi: how he lives all this, according to the account of the Sources.

Enamoured of Our Lady Poverty, Francis insistently invited the Same to take food with the brothers [cf. Sacrum Commercium Beati Francisci cum Domina Paupertate]:

"Then they led her to the place where the table was prepared. As she arrived she looked around and, seeing nothing but three or four loaves of barley bread and bran placed on the grass, was seized with great admiration" (FF 2020).

He then "commanded them all to be together and spoke words of life to them, saying:

"Be blessed, my children, by the Lord God who created the heavens and the earth, for you have welcomed me into your home with such fullness of charity, that today, being with you, it seemed to me that I was in the paradise of the Lord [...].

Here is what I have sought so much, now I contemplate it [...] because on earth I have united myself with men who are for me the faithful image of Him who is my spouse in heaven.

May the Lord bless your courage and praise the work of your hands'" (FF 2024).

Called and elected in the company of Our Lady Poverty, to follow in the footsteps of the Son of God.

Clare herself, in her Spiritual Testament, a true Franciscan pearl, addresses her present and future daughters, inviting them to guard the priceless treasure of election. We read in it:

"Among the other benefits that we have received and every day receive from our Donor, the Father of Mercies, for which we are greatly obliged to render to Him glorious living deeds of grace, great is that of our vocation. And the greater and more perfect it is, the more we are obliged to him. Therefore the Apostle admonishes: 'Know your vocation well'" (FF 2823).

And again:

"The Son of God became our Way; and this by word and example our blessed father Francis, a true lover and imitator of Him, showed and taught us" (FF 2824).

At this point Clare recalls when the Saint, under divine inspiration, prophesied about them.

"Having climbed over the wall of the said church [...] he addressed some poor people who were standing nearby:

"Come and help me in this work of the monastery of St Damian, for soon women will come to inhabit it, and by the fame of the holiness of their lives glory will be given to our heavenly Father throughout his holy Church".

We can, therefore, admire in this fact the great goodness of God towards us: He has deigned, in His superabundant mercy and charity, to inspire such words to His Saint concerning our vocation and election" (FF 2827-2828).

 

 

[Thursday of the 20th wk in O.T.  (Mt 22:1-14)]

Aug 12, 2025

Gratuity of the Eternal

Published in Aforisma

In chapter twenty of Matthew's Gospel, Jesus likens the kingdom of heaven to a master who calls and welcomes to work in his vineyard at all hours, even those who arrive at the last hour. Without taking anything away from those who have worked hard all day, the Lord fully welcomes even those who arrive late, according to the human clock.

God, in his goodness, evaluates according to a criterion different from the prejudices of men.

Therefore: «the last shall be first and the first, last» (Mt 20:16).

In the Franciscan Sources we find a Poor Man who loved hard work and not prejudice, shunning idleness.

He understood, however, that our God is not despotic, but dispenses his goods in total gratuity.

The Minor always looked to the Goodness of the Author of all things, who cares for each one, and wants to lead all into his Kingdom.

He exhorted his brothers to work with solicitude in the Vineyard of the Lord, welcoming everyone and staying away only from those who were idle.

The Sources recount:

"When the brothers were staying at Rivotorto, there was one of them who prayed little, did not work, and refused to go looking for alms because he was ashamed: he ate hard, however.

Considering such conduct, Francis realised with the light of the Holy Spirit that this was a carnal man. And he addressed these words to him:

"Go your way, Brother Mosca! You want to eat the work of your brothers, but you are idle in the service of God. You are like the drone, which neither works nor gathers, and devours the fruit of the labour of the industrious bees."

That fellow went his way, without even asking for an apology, from the carnal man that he was" (FF 1612).

Yet Francis had no prejudices, and always contemplated the Supreme Goodness of God, going back to the saving Origin of all things.

In this way "he exulted over all the works of the Lord's hands and, from that spectacle of joy, he went back to the Cause and Reason that makes all things live" (FF 1162).

So he did not fail to admonish his brothers not to be envious of what the Lord was working in their neighbour:

"Whoever envies his brother concerning the good that the Lord says and does in him, commits the sin of blasphemy, for he envies the Most High himself, who says and does all good" (FF 157 Admonitions).

And again:

"I want my brothers to work and keep themselves exercised. In this way they will not go about, idling with their hearts and their tongues, grazing on illicit things" (FF1093).

 

 

Wednesday of the 20th wk. in O.T.  (Mt 20:1-16)

Jesus astonishes and astounds his disciples, remarking:

«it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God» (Matthew 19:24).

Peter's question arises: what about us who have left everything for the Gospel?

But Jesus assures the hundred for one and the experience of the Life of the Eternal.

 

Let us look at Francis and his own in the Sources and on the subject.

As Dante Alighieri recalls in the Divine Comedy (Canto XI of Paradise):

"Oh unknown riches! veracious wealth!/ takes off his shoes Egidio, takes off his shoes Silvestro/ behind the groom, this way the bride likes".

Francis had embraced Lady Poverty as the greatest wealth existing on this earth.

In love with Christ, in order to follow in His footsteps so as to resemble Him as much as possible, he adhered to Him with all his fibres and taught his own to do the same.

In fact, in the Sources (Legend of the Three Companions) it is narrated:

"There went Messer Bernard, who was very rich, and sold all his possessions, gaining much money, which he distributed entirely to the poor of the city.

Peter also carried out the divine advice as well as he could.

Having deprived themselves of everything, they both put on the habit that the Saint had taken shortly before, after having left that of a hermit.

And from that hour, they lived with him according to the form of life of the holy Gospel, as the Lord had indicated to them.

And so Francis was able to write in his Testament:

'The Lord himself revealed to me that I should live according to the form of life of the holy Gospel'" (FF 1432).

Consulting the Word, as he was wont to do, he had before his eyes the expression "Do not take anything with you on your journeys" and "Whoever wishes to follow me should renounce himself" (FF 1431), shaking with joy.

"Francis, a man of God, with the two brothers of whom we have spoken, having no lodging where they could dwell together, took refuge with them at St Mary of the Portiuncula.

There they made themselves a hut to live in community.

A few days later, a man from Assisi, Egidio, came down to them, and with sincere respect and devotion, on his knees, begged the man of God to receive him with him.

Francis, touched by his faith and goodness [...] received him gladly" (FF 1435).

Those who followed the Poverello, in his fraternity and for the sake of the Gospel had well understood the scope of that vocation-mission and its happy conclusion beyond time.

To leave for Christ is to find and live to a greater extent.

 

 

Tuesday of the 20th wk. in O.T.  (Mt 19:23-30)

Aug 10, 2025

The Highest Poverty

Published in Aforisma

The Poor Man of Assisi, had understood by divine revelation that true wealth is the Poverty embraced by the Son of God, who became Poor for us, so that we might become rich in Him.

Indeed, the Giver of all good wanted Francis to grow in the riches of simplicity through love of the highest poverty. 

We find in the Sources:

"The Saint, noticing how poverty, which had been the intimate friend of the Son of God, was now being repudiated by almost the whole world, wanted to make her his bride, loving her with eternal love, and for her he not only left his father and mother but generously distributed all he could have.

No one was so greedy for gold, as Francis was for poverty; no one was more eager for treasures, than Francis was for this gospel pearl.

Nothing offended his eye more than this: to see something in the brothers that was not entirely in harmony with poverty.

As for him, from the beginning of his religious life until his death, he had these riches: a cassock, a cord and pants, and of this he was content" (FF 1117).

"He often recalled to mind, weeping, the poverty of Jesus Christ and of his Mother, and affirmed that this is the queen of virtues, because one sees it shine so brightly, more than all the others, in the King of kings and in the Queen his Mother (FF 1118). "He taught, having learned it by revelation, that the first step in holy religion consists in fulfilling that word of the Gospel: If you want to be perfect, go and sell everything you have and give it to the poor" (FF 1121).

 

«If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor and you will have treasure in heaven, and come, follow me» (Mt 19:21)

 

 

Monday, 20th wk. in O.T.  (Mt 19:16-22)

Jesus speaks of a Fire that came to earth, dividing those who follow him from those who do not.

Francis, who understood what the Lord meant by Fire, knew it well: it was the Holy Spirit.

As Master and Minister of the Order of Friars Minor, the Spirit of God guided the Poverello in his every step.

If we consult the Sources, we realise this.

"And so, by the disposition of divine goodness and through the merits and virtues of the Saint, it came to pass, mercifully and wonderfully, that the friend of Christ sought with all his strength to die for Him and could not succeed [...]

On the one hand, he did not lack the merit of the martyrdom he desired, and on the other, he was spared in order to be later honoured with an extraordinary privilege.

The divine fire that burned in his heart became ever more ardent and perfect, so that it might later shine more brightly in his flesh.

O truly blessed man, who is not torn by the iron of the tyrant, yet is not deprived of the glory of resembling the Lamb who was slain! (FF 1175).

In fact, "the Spirit of the Lord, who had anointed and sent him, assisted his servant Francis wherever he went [...]

His words were like a burning fire that penetrated the depths of the heart and filled minds with admiration" (FF 1210).

Furthermore, the Fioretti [popularised in the last quarter of the 14th century by an unknown Tuscan] tell us of Clare of Assisi's desire to dine once with Francis.

Francis, who had always refused, was persuaded by his friars to abandon his rigidity on this matter and to grant her request.

So Clare came to St. Mary of the Angels, and there Francis had the table set on the ground, together with a brother of the Saint and a sister who accompanied Clare.

"And for the first course, St. Francis began to speak of God so sweetly, so highly, so marvellously, that the abundance of divine grace descended upon them, and they were all caught up in God.

And as they stood there with their eyes and hands raised to heaven, the men from Sciesi and Bettona and those from the surrounding countryside saw that Santa Maria degli Agnoli and the whole place and the forest [...] were burning fiercely, and it seemed as if a great fire was occupying the church and the place and the forest together" (FF1844).

So much so that the inhabitants of the surrounding area ran, worried, to put out the fire they saw.

But on the spot they found only Francis and Clare and their companions rapt in God, understanding that this was divine fire and not material, a testimony of the Spirit of God inflaming those holy souls.

Indeed, to benefit from that Holy Spirit gained through the Baptism of Christ!

 

«I have come to cast fire upon the earth, and how I wish it were already kindled!» (Lk 12:49)

 

 

Sunday 20th. in Ordinary Time, year C   (Lk 12:49-53)

In today's Gospel Jesus takes as a point of reference for entering the Kingdom of heaven the simplicity and littleness of children, because: «of such is the Kingdom of heaven» (Mt 19:14).

His exhortation not to put obstacles between Him and the least is striking.

Francis of Assisi was loved in a special way by God because of his making himself small.

With a refined mind, he described himself as "simple and idiotic".

The Poverello understood the logic of the Gospel very well: whoever wants to be great must be the smallest, like a child - in times past considered of no value; minimal.

He endeavoured to make his brothers understand all this, more with deeds than words.

Nevertheless, in his 'Letter to the Rulers of the Peoples' he writes:

"To all the podestas and consuls, magistrates and rulers of every part of the world [...] to whom this letter will reach, Brother Francis, your servant in the Lord God, small and contemptible, wishes you all health and peace" (FF 210).

Furthermore, we read in the Sources:

"The servant of God, Francis, small in stature, humble of spirit and a minor by profession, while living here on earth, chose for himself and his brothers a small portion of the world: otherwise, without using anything of this world, he would not have been able to serve Christ.

And they were certainly inspired by God who, in ancient times, called Porziuncola the place that fell to the lot of those who wanted absolutely nothing on this earth.

There stood in this place a church dedicated to the Virgin Mother, who, by her particular humility, deserved, after her Son, to be Sovereign of all Saints.

It was here that the Order of the Minors began, and their noble building rose up spacious and harmonious, as if resting on a solid foundation.

The Saint loved this place more than any other and commanded his friars to venerate it with special devotion.

He wanted it always to be kept as a mirror of the Order in humility and the highest poverty, reserving its ownership to others and keeping its use for himself and his own only" (FF 604).

And to his beloved brothers he repeated:

"We have promised great things, greater things are promised to us; let us observe those and aspire to them. Pleasure is short, punishment eternal; suffering small, glory infinite" (FF 778).

Francis understood that to be Christ's and heirs of the Kingdom means not to count according to worldly mentality, and to carry with one the simplicity of the dove, as well as the frank transparency of the child.

This outfit requires belonging to the Eternal, and its transparency on earth.

 

 

Saturday of the 19th wk. in O.T. (Mt 19:13-15)

The Lucan Gospel highlights Mary's visit to her cousin Elizabeth and the dance of the two Little Ones carried by special women, embraced in different ways by Grace.

Mary, the Mother of Jesus, expresses herself in the song of praise of the Magnificat, which refers back to God the extraordinary benefits received.

 

From the very beginning of his calling, Francis had a special and profound veneration for the Virgin Mary, Mother of the Lord.

Of her he always contemplated the mysteries in the various seasons of his life.

The Sources provide wonderful pictures in this regard.

"He surrounded the Mother of Jesus with an unspeakable love, because she had made our brother the Lord of majesty.

To his honour he sang special praises, raised prayers, offered affections so many and such that human tongue could not express them.

But what fills one most with joy, he made her the Advocate of the Order and placed her children under her wings [...] so that they might find warmth and protection there to the end" (FF 786).

"In her, above all, after Christ, he placed his trust [...] In her honour he fasted with great devotion, from the feast of the apostles Peter and Paul until the feast of the Assumption [...]" (FF 1165).

And to his daughters, dwelling at St Damian, Francis in a composition dedicated to them, concludes by saying:

"Those who are aggravated by infirmity/ and the others who for their part are fatigued/ all of them be sustained in peace,/ for you will sell this toil dearly,/ and each one will be queen/ in heaven crowned with the Virgin Mary" (FF 263).

And Clare, when she began her journey of faith following Francis, was received by him and his friars at the altar of the Blessed Virgin at the Portiuncula. Moreover, that same Mother, at the moment of her passing, came to take her, appearing to her by her bed.

Mary was for Clare a model to follow throughout her life, so much so that in the Letter of Introduction to the Legend, in the Sources, we read:

"Let men therefore follow the new followers of the Incarnate Word: let the women imitate Clare, the imprint of the Mother of God, the new guide of women" (FF 3153).

Francis and Clare assumed Mary, the Mother of God, into their daily lives to be assumed by Christ into heavenly glory.

 

«My soul magnifies the Lord [...] for he has looked upon the lowliness of his servant. For behold, henceforth all generations shall call me blessed» (Lk 1:46, 48a)

 

 

Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary  (Lk 1:39-56)

Aug 7, 2025

Mutual charity

Published in Aforisma

Today's passage from Matthew calls for forgiveness and correction which, if truly fraternal, does not look down on others, but rather the exact opposite.

Without forgetting that what we want to be forgiven for, we are called to forgive in others, giving them time to redeem themselves.

Chiara of Assisi loved to call herself 'little plant of the Seraphic Father Francis'.

She was always a caring mother and a great example to her daughters and sisters in the Monastery of St Damian.

Even when it was necessary to exhort or reprimand, she knew how to correct with the love and wisdom that came from Above.

The Sources attest (Rule of St. Clare):

"The abbess shall admonish and visit her sisters and correct them with humility and charity, not commanding them anything that is contrary to her soul and the form of our profession" (FF 2806).

And again, with a far-sighted and comprehensive gaze, Clare herself continues:

"I admonish and exhort all my sisters, present and future, in the Lord Jesus Christ, to always strive to imitate the way of holy simplicity, humility and poverty, and also the honesty of that holy life which was taught to us by our blessed Father Francis from the beginning of our conversion to Christ" (FF 2845 - Testament).

"And loving one another in the love of Christ, that love which you have in your hearts, show it outwardly by your deeds, so that the sisters, provoked by this example, may always grow in the love of God and in mutual charity" (FF 2847 - Testament).

In the Rule, then:

"The abbess shall also endeavour to reconcile the sisters, if ever it should happen that some of them, for any reason or occasion, should be disturbed among themselves.

The sister who, by words or gestures, has given occasion of disturbance or scandal to another, shall immediately, before offering the gift of her prayer to God, humbly kneel before her and ask forgiveness of the sister she has offended, praying her to intercede for her with the Lord, that he may forgive her the fault she has committed.

The other, remembering the words of the Lord:

"If you do not forgive from your heart, neither will your heavenly Father forgive you," should generously forgive the offence to the sister who asks for forgiveness" (FF 3358).

Chiara was a teacher of life for all the sisters, a pedagogue of true charity that always rebuilds, despite malicious actions.

 

«Be patient with me, and I will pay you back» (Mt 18:26)

 

 

Thursday 19th wk. in O.T.  (Mt 18:21-19:1) 

In today's Liturgy, Jesus calls for discreet, fraternal correction before taking more drastic measures.

 

The two Poor Men of Assisi were exemplary people in their fraternal love and in the corrections they made, always seasoned with wisdom, humanity and charity. 

Severe with themselves; attentive and merciful with their neighbour.

Francis before acting towards the brothers prayed and even beforehand examined himself.

 

Clare of Assisi liked to call herself "little plant of the Seraphic Father Francis".

She was always a solicitous Mother and a great example to her daughters and sisters in the Monastery of St Damian.

Even when it was necessary to exhort or remonstrate, she knew how to correct with love and wisdom that came to her from on high.

The Sources attest [Rule of St Clare]:

"Let the abbess admonish and visit her sisters and correct them with humility and charity, not commanding them anything that is against her soul and the form of our profession" (FF 2806).

And again, with an extensive far-sighted look, Clare herself continues:

"I admonish and exhort in the Lord Jesus Christ all my sisters, present and future, that they always strive to imitate the way of holy simplicity, humility and poverty, and also the honesty of that holy life, which was taught to us by our blessed Father Francis from the beginning of our conversion to Christ" (FF 2845 - Testament).

"And loving one another in the love of Christ, that love which you have in your heart, show it outside with works, so that the sisters, provoked by this example, may always grow in the love of God and in mutual charity" (FF 2847 - Testament).

 

«If your brother commits a fault against you, go and admonish him between you and him alone; if he listens to you, you will have gained your brother» (Mt 18:15)

 

 

Wednesday 19th wk. in O.T.  (Mt 18:15-20)

Aug 6, 2025

For one sheep

Published in Aforisma

Who knows how many times Francis, the Herald of the Great King, in reading the episode of the lost sheep will have dwelt on that "What do you think?" (Mt 18:12). As if to say: "Would you do it?". 

Francis will certainly have asked himself this disarming question, to which his entire eloquent existence was answered "Yes, without any doubt".

For just one sheep of his flock he would certainly have left the others safe in search of the lost one.

"Let us look closely, brothers all, at the good Shepherd who, in order to save his sheep, endured the passion of the cross" (FF 155 - Admonitions).

He, who used to call Brother Leo 'God's sheep', would have faced any adversity to find it, and for this he sought martyrdom even at the Sultan of Egypt to win it for Christ.

Rich in tenderness and mercy is an episode that highlights Francis' shepherd heart. 

We find in the Sources:

"Once crossing the March of Ancona, after preaching in the same city, and heading towards Osimo, in the company of Brother Paul, whom he had elected minister to all the brothers of that province, he met a shepherd in the countryside, who was grazing his flock of rams and goats.

In the midst of the flock was a single sheep, quietly and humbly grazing on the grass.

As soon as he saw it, Francis stopped, and as if he had had a grip on his heart, full of compassion he said to his brother:

"Do you see that lonely and meek sheep among the goats? Our Lord Jesus Christ, surrounded and hunted down by the Pharisees and Sanhedrists, must have looked just like that humble creature.

Therefore I beseech thee, my son, for love of Him, be thou also full of compassion, let us buy her and take her away from these goats and goatherds" (FF 456).

 

«What is it to you? Would you do it?»  (Mt 18:12)

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Isn’t the family just what the world needs? Doesn’t it need the love of father and mother, the love between parents and children, between husband and wife? Don’t we need love for life, the joy of life? (Pope Benedict)
Non ha forse il mondo bisogno proprio della famiglia? Non ha forse bisogno dell’amore paterno e materno, dell’amore tra genitori e figli, tra uomo e donna? Non abbiamo noi bisogno dell’amore della vita, bisogno della gioia di vivere? (Papa Benedetto)
Thus in communion with Christ, in a faith that creates charity, the entire Law is fulfilled. We become just by entering into communion with Christ who is Love (Pope Benedict)
Così nella comunione con Cristo, nella fede che crea la carità, tutta la Legge è realizzata. Diventiamo giusti entrando in comunione con Cristo che è l'amore (Papa Benedetto)
From a human point of view, he thinks that there should be distance between the sinner and the Holy One. In truth, his very condition as a sinner requires that the Lord not distance Himself from him, in the same way that a doctor cannot distance himself from those who are sick (Pope Francis))
Da un punto di vista umano, pensa che ci debba essere distanza tra il peccatore e il Santo. In verità, proprio la sua condizione di peccatore richiede che il Signore non si allontani da lui, allo stesso modo in cui un medico non può allontanarsi da chi è malato (Papa Francesco)
The life of the Church in the Third Millennium will certainly not be lacking in new and surprising manifestations of "the feminine genius" (Pope John Paul II)
Il futuro della Chiesa nel terzo millennio non mancherà certo di registrare nuove e mirabili manifestazioni del « genio femminile » (Papa Giovanni Paolo II)
And it is not enough that you belong to the Son of God, but you must be in him, as the members are in their head. All that is in you must be incorporated into him and from him receive life and guidance (Jean Eudes)
E non basta che tu appartenga al Figlio di Dio, ma devi essere in lui, come le membra sono nel loro capo. Tutto ciò che è in te deve essere incorporato in lui e da lui ricevere vita e guida (Giovanni Eudes)
This transition from the 'old' to the 'new' characterises the entire teaching of the 'Prophet' of Nazareth [John Paul II]
Questo passaggio dal “vecchio” al “nuovo” caratterizza l’intero insegnamento del “Profeta” di Nazaret [Giovanni Paolo II]
The Lord does not intend to give a lesson on etiquette or on the hierarchy of the different authorities […] A deeper meaning of this parable also makes us think of the position of the human being in relation to God. The "lowest place" can in fact represent the condition of humanity (Pope Benedict)
Il Signore non intende dare una lezione sul galateo, né sulla gerarchia tra le diverse autorità […] Questa parabola, in un significato più profondo, fa anche pensare alla posizione dell’uomo in rapporto a Dio. L’"ultimo posto" può infatti rappresentare la condizione dell’umanità (Papa Benedetto)
We see this great figure, this force in the Passion, in resistance to the powerful. We wonder: what gave birth to this life, to this interiority so strong, so upright, so consistent, spent so totally for God in preparing the way for Jesus? The answer is simple: it was born from the relationship with God (Pope Benedict)

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