Today's passage from Matthew calls for forgiveness and correction which, if truly fraternal, does not look down on others, but rather the exact opposite.
Without forgetting that what we want to be forgiven for, we are called to forgive in others, giving them time to redeem themselves.
Chiara of Assisi loved to call herself 'little plant of the Seraphic Father Francis'.
She was always a caring mother and a great example to her daughters and sisters in the Monastery of St Damian.
Even when it was necessary to exhort or reprimand, she knew how to correct with the love and wisdom that came from Above.
The Sources attest (Rule of St. Clare):
"The abbess shall admonish and visit her sisters and correct them with humility and charity, not commanding them anything that is contrary to her soul and the form of our profession" (FF 2806).
And again, with a far-sighted and comprehensive gaze, Clare herself continues:
"I admonish and exhort all my sisters, present and future, in the Lord Jesus Christ, to always strive to imitate the way of holy simplicity, humility and poverty, and also the honesty of that holy life which was taught to us by our blessed Father Francis from the beginning of our conversion to Christ" (FF 2845 - Testament).
"And loving one another in the love of Christ, that love which you have in your hearts, show it outwardly by your deeds, so that the sisters, provoked by this example, may always grow in the love of God and in mutual charity" (FF 2847 - Testament).
In the Rule, then:
"The abbess shall also endeavour to reconcile the sisters, if ever it should happen that some of them, for any reason or occasion, should be disturbed among themselves.
The sister who, by words or gestures, has given occasion of disturbance or scandal to another, shall immediately, before offering the gift of her prayer to God, humbly kneel before her and ask forgiveness of the sister she has offended, praying her to intercede for her with the Lord, that he may forgive her the fault she has committed.
The other, remembering the words of the Lord:
"If you do not forgive from your heart, neither will your heavenly Father forgive you," should generously forgive the offence to the sister who asks for forgiveness" (FF 3358).
Chiara was a teacher of life for all the sisters, a pedagogue of true charity that always rebuilds, despite malicious actions.
«Be patient with me, and I will pay you back» (Mt 18:26)
Thursday 19th wk. in O.T. (Mt 18:21-19:1)