Mary in the Church, who gives birth to sons

(Jn 19:25-27)

The brief passage of the Gospel in verses 25-27 is perhaps the artistic climax of the Passion narrative.

In the fourth Gospel, the Mother appears twice, at the wedding at Cana and at the foot of the Cross - both episodes found only in John.

Both at Cana and at the foot of the Cross, the Mother is a figure of the rest of Israel, authentically sensitive and faithful.

The people-bride of the First Testament are as if waiting for the real Revelation: they perceive all the limitations of the ancient idea of God, which has reduced and extinguished the joy of the wedding feast between the Father and his children.

The authentically adoring Israel brought about the transition from religiosity to active Faith, from the ancient law to the New Testament.

At the foot of the Cross, an alternative Kingdom is generated.

Fathers and mothers of a different humanity are formed, proclaiming the Good News of God - this time exclusively in favour of every person, whatever their condition.

In the theological intent of John, Jesus' words 'Woman, behold your son' and 'Behold, your Mother' were intended to help resolve and harmonise the strong tensions that already existed at the end of the first century between the different currents of thought on Christ.

Among them were the Judaizers, who believed in the primacy of faith over works, and the Laxists, who considered Jesus anathema and wanted to replace him with a generic freedom of spirit without history.

At the beginning of the second century, Marcion rejected the entire First Testament and seems to have appreciated only part of the New Testament.

To those who now wanted to disregard the teaching of the 'fathers', Jesus proposed to bring together the past and the new.

The beloved disciple, icon of the authentic son of God [Word-event spread throughout the New Testament], must receive the Mother, the culture of the people of the Covenant, into his home - that is, into the nascent Church.

Yet, even if it is in the Christian community that the full meaning of all Scripture is discovered, the Person, the story and the Word of Christ himself cannot be understood nor will they bear concrete fruit with the many dreams ahead, without the ancient root that generated them.

Projections alone are not enough, even if they shake mental prisons, often built on false certainties: the Seed is not an enemy to be fought, but a virtue that comes from deep within.

The Covenant is precious; it gives life a genuine jolt. Thus, new family relationships flourish: then the Church is born.

And the Church raised up by her Lord will reveal something portentous: fruitfulness from nothingness, life from the outpouring of it, birth from apparent sterility.

In Mary and in the faithful icons generated from the breast of Christ - inseparable in the Mission - the intimate cooperation intensifies the moments of a humble and silent community life.

In the perfect adoration of the identity-character of the Crucified One and in the movement of self-giving, the freedom to let go advances.

If someone lays down, the new will advance.

And even the old may re-emerge, this time everlasting. Because there are other Heights. Because what makes us intimate with God is nothing external.

A river of unimagined harmonies will reconnect the human spirit of believers to the maternal work of the Spirit without barriers.

The Tao Te Ching (xxii) says: 'If you bend, you preserve yourself; if you bow, you straighten yourself; if you hollow yourself, you fill yourself; if you wear yourself out, you renew yourself; if you aim for little, you obtain; if you aim for much, you remain disappointed. For this reason, the saint preserves the One [the maximum of the little], and becomes a model [sets the standard] for the world. He does not see by himself, therefore he is enlightened; he does not approve by himself, therefore he shines; he does not glory by himself, therefore he has merit; he does not exalt himself, therefore he lasts long. Precisely because he does not contend, no one in the world can contend with him. What the ancients said: if you bend, you preserve yourself, were these perhaps empty words? In truth, they were whole'.

In this way, in silence, we will not oppose hardship. The offended body will speak, manifesting the soul and filling life, in a crescendo.

To internalise and live the message:

How do you enter into the rhythm of this passage from the Gospel? Which character do you identify with, or why do you see yourself in all of them? What is your measure in each of them, what do you give to the world?

Blood Water: Body still torn apart

Blood and Water: life given and life transmitted

(Jn 19:31-37)

The Lord's cruel departure is not an end: it inaugurates new life, albeit amid gruesome signs and true death.

The Crucified One saves: he communicates a life of salvation. He takes us from one world to another: only in this sense does the ancient Passover coincide with the new one.

His is a Liberation and Redemption that goes far beyond the ritual promises of propitiatory sacrifices and the religion of purification.

The Blood of Christ is here a figure of the ultimate Gift of Love. The Water from the same pierced side is that which is assimilated and makes us grow.This supreme Friendship, given and received, conquers every form of death, because it offers a double principle of indestructible life: the acceptance of an ever-new proposal, and growth wave upon wave.

Thus, the Jewish feast of liberation is replaced by Christian Easter - and by the signs of the essential Sacraments.

In the body of Jesus and in those of the men crucified alongside him, John sees the brotherhood of the Son with the human race, which is also made a divine sanctuary.

With Jesus dead, we too can follow him [criminals whose legs are broken] because no one can take the life of the Risen One, even if they try to do so to the unfortunate ones with him.

In fact, the 'piercing' of Christ's Body continues even after his death on the Cross (v. 34): hostility towards him will not subside; on the contrary, it wants to destroy him forever.

But from his pierced Body [the authentic Church] will continue to flow dizzying love and finally the joy of a festive banquet, as promised since the wedding at Cana.

The evangelist's testimony becomes the solemn foundation of the faith of future disciples. And faith will replace the yoke of religion already written down.

Thus, the author invites each of us to write our own Gospel (Jn 20:30-31) in the experience of the paradoxes and salvation of God, who has reached us precisely from our sins or uncertain situations.

Future disciples are proclaimed blessed (Jn 20:29) precisely because they 'have not seen' that spectacle with their eyes.

However, they recognised it in themselves and in their own journey, repeatedly experiencing the place of Mercy in their own weaknesses.

Maternal sense, not a Church of bachelors

On 21 May, at Santa Marta, Pope Francis celebrated Mass for the first time in memory of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of the Church: from this year, in fact, the feast day in the general Roman calendar is celebrated on the Monday after Pentecost, as decreed by the Pontiff in the decree Ecclesia mater of the Congregation for Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments (11 February 2018), precisely to "foster the growth of the maternal sense of the Church in pastors, religious and the faithful, as well as genuine Marian piety".

"In the Gospels, whenever Mary is mentioned, she is referred to as 'the mother of Jesus'," Francis immediately pointed out in his homily, referring to the Gospel passage from John (19:25-34). And even if "the word 'mother' is not used in the Annunciation, the context is one of motherhood: the mother of Jesus," said the Pope, emphasising that "this maternal attitude accompanies her work throughout the life of Jesus: she is a mother." So much so, he continued, "that in the end Jesus gives her as a mother to his own, in the person of John: 'I am leaving, but this is your mother'." Here, then, is "Mary's motherhood."

"The words of Our Lady are the words of a mother," explained the Pope. And so are "all of them: after those at the beginning, of willingness to God's will and praise to God in the Magnificat, all the words of Our Lady are the words of a mother." She is always "with her Son, even in her attitudes: she accompanies her Son, she follows her Son." And again, "before, in Nazareth, she raises him, nurtures him, educates him, but then she follows him: 'Your mother is there.'" Mary "is a mother from the beginning, from the moment she appears in the Gospels, from that moment of the Annunciation until the end, she is a mother." She is not referred to as "the lady" or "the widow of Joseph" — and in reality "they could have said so" — but Mary is always "a mother".

"The Fathers of the Church understood this well," said the Pontiff, "and they also understood that Mary's motherhood does not end with her; it goes beyond." The Fathers always "say that Mary is mother, the Church is mother, and your soul is mother: there is something feminine in the Church, which is maternal." Therefore, Francis explained, "the Church is feminine because she is 'church', 'bride': she is feminine and she is mother, she gives birth." She is, therefore, "bride and mother," but "the Fathers go further and say: 'Your soul is also bride of Christ and mother.'"

"In this attitude that comes from Mary, who is the mother of the Church," the Pope pointed out, "we can understand this feminine dimension of the Church: when it is not there, the Church loses its true identity and becomes a charitable association or a football team or anything else, but not the Church."

"The Church is 'woman'," Francis reiterated, "and when we think about the role of women in the Church, we must go back to this source: Mary, mother." And "the Church is 'woman' because she is mother, because she is capable of 'giving birth to children': her soul is feminine because she is mother, she is capable of giving birth to attitudes of fruitfulness."

"Mary's motherhood is a great thing," insisted the Pontiff. In fact, God "wanted to be born of a woman to teach us this way." Moreover, "God fell in love with his people as a husband with his wife: this is said in the Old Testament. And it is "a great mystery." As a consequence, Francis continued, "we can think" that "if the Church is a mother, women must have roles in the Church: yes, it is true, they must have roles, many roles, and thank God there are more roles for women in the Church."

But "this is not the most significant thing," the Pope warned, because "the important thing is that the Church is woman, that she has this attitude of bride and mother." With the awareness that "when we forget this, it is a masculine Church without this dimension, and sadly it becomes a Church of bachelors, who live in this isolation, incapable of love, incapable of fruitfulness." Therefore, the Pontiff affirmed, "without women, the Church does not move forward, because she is a woman, and this attitude of a woman comes from Mary, because Jesus wanted it that way."

In this regard, Francis also wanted to point out "the gesture, I would say the attitude, that most distinguishes the Church as a woman, the virtue that most distinguishes her as a woman." And he suggested recognising it in "Mary's gesture at the birth of Jesus: 'She gave birth to her firstborn son, wrapped him in swaddling clothes and laid him in a manger.'" An image in which we find "the tenderness of every mother towards her child: caring for him with tenderness, so that he does not hurt himself, so that he is well covered." And "tenderness" is therefore also "the attitude of the Church, which feels like a woman and feels like a mother."

"St Paul — we heard him yesterday, we also prayed to him in the breviary — reminds us of the virtues of the Spirit and speaks to us of meekness, humility, these so-called 'passive' virtues," said the Pope, pointing out that instead "they are the strong virtues, the virtues of mothers." Thus, he added, "a Church that is a mother walks the path of tenderness; she knows the language of the great wisdom of caresses, of silence, of a gaze that speaks of compassion, that speaks of silence." And "even a soul, a person who lives this belonging to the Church, knowing that she too is a mother, must walk the same path: a meek, tender, smiling person, full of love."

"Mary, mother; the Church, mother; our soul, mother," Francis repeated, inviting us to think "about this great richness of the Church and ours; and let the Holy Spirit fertilise us, us and the Church, so that we too may become mothers to others, with attitudes of tenderness, meekness, humility. We are certain that this is Mary's way." And, in conclusion, the Pope also pointed out how "curious Mary's language is in the Gospels: when she speaks to her Son, it is to tell him things that others need; and when she speaks to others, it is to tell them: 'do whatever he tells you'."

[Pope Francis, homily at St. Martha's, in L'Osservatore Romano, 22 May 2018]